Remains of the Day (01/30)

People: Big 10 football player lived in fear of teammates learning he's gay -- the secret landed him in the hospital

Gr8er Days: The first known use of the term “gaslighting” -- as a verb -- might surprise you

Attitude: Rob Jetten moved closer to becoming Dutch prime minister after a coalition breakthrough, a role that would make him the Netherlands’ youngest leader and its first openly gay person to hold the office

IG: What could be more natural than sporting a vintage jockstrap while reading your copy of Madonna's "Sex"?

PinkNews: Bruce Springsteen names Alex Pretti and Renee Good in new song dedicated to Minneapolis

Saturday 'Stache: When your treasure trail leads to treasure island

The Nation: A long-lost novel by George Whitmore (1945-1989) resurfaces as a stark, prairie-quiet reckoning with gay survival, solitude and the shadow of AIDS in midcentury America

NYT: So this California Post tabloid is really happening ... 

Advocate: Health insurance costs are up and women and LGBTQ people are paying the price

Go Mag: The LGBTQ films to watch at Sundance 2026

Out: A guide to the "Before I Do" actors, characters and gay storylines in the upcoming romantic comedy directed by Gary Jaffe, which features an all-homo cast

MetroWeekly: NYPD increases security at NYU after anti-LGBTQ bomb threats

American Songwriter: Jane Wiedlin reveals she’ll be sharing “really intimate and crazy shit” in an upcoming memoir titled "TMI" 

NYT: Washington Post plans cuts to reshape newsroom

Out: Rob Rausch turns heads on "The Traitors" with viral photos highlighting his sexy V-line and bulging biceps

Pride: Meet all 41 LGBTQ Olympians at the 2026 Winter Olympics

TV Line: I'd watch Katey Sagal and Jane Lynch play longtime besties in an NBC sitcom

Speedo Sunday: Camo tease

Hot Cat of the Day: Fun idea -- build a dollhouse that's an exact replica of your actual home. Let your cat loose in it. Send pictures to your neighbors, family and friends, saying: "Something happened to the cat, I don't know if I'll survive the night." 

Making his Mark: I miss the days when we had an actual leader -- and a funny one, to boot

Down Under: You can only imagine how happy I am that both Carlos Alcaraz and Novak Djokovic advanced to the Aussie Open final!

RIP: Catherine O’Hara, who has made me laugh for as long as I can remember, is reportedly dead at 71. Although the cause is unclear, what is certain is that there are millions of heartbroken fans today. How lucky we were to have had you. xo