
Wednesday, March 19, 2025
My Favorite Year
To give you a (better) sense of how deluded I am, I swear I feel a greater kinship with the people in these photos Tracy Austin posted from Indian Wells than I do with anyone from my upcoming 40th high-school reunion(!).
Growing up, Inside Women's Tennis was the "school paper" my friend Greg and I read religiously -- not the Dobson Mustang -- and it felt like Tracy and Pam were our older classmates while Martina, Chris, Rosie and Billie Jean were celebrated alumni. (Andrea Jaeger was my troubled older sister and Kathy Rinaldi was basically my twin.)

To me, 1981 was the greatest year in women's tennis history -- a rare occasion when all four majors were won by different (non-fluky) players and the No. 1 ranking was on the line at the year-end championships.
It also marked the beginning of all the players competing Down Under every season, something that hadn't been done in the past. (After a disappointing season, Martina was determined to take home a Grand Slam title that year, so everyone followed her to Kooyong Stadium, forever putting the Australian Open on equal footing with the other majors.) That Tracy came out on top -- only to essentially have her career end after an injury-plagued 1982 -- made it all the more monumental.
Oh, to be a fly on the wall at this WTA Class of ‘81 reunion. I have much fonder memories of these people and a million more questions than I do for anyone from back "home" -- starting with this:
Do you think Tracy ever hooked up with post-divorce John Lloyd? (Her autobiography makes it clear she was boy crazy after basically retiring at 21.) I remember they teamed up for a mixed-doubles event in 1988 against Peanut Louie and a 17-year-old Pete Sampras and I've always wondered if there was more to that story!
They also paired for the World Doubles Cup held in Edinburgh in 1995, although Tracy was married by then.
Remains of the Day (03/19)
Baseline: I have no knowledge of the merits of the PTPA lawsuit against all the major tennis organizations. But this rogues' gallery of notorious cranks attached to it -- Tennys Sandgren, Noah Rubin, Reilly Opelka and Nick Kyrgios (LOL) -- doesn't exactly bolster its credibility.
Wrestle Wednesday: His nickname must be “Beer Can”
The Randy Report: Three suspects identified in Seattle gay bar hate crime
Gr8er Days: Sex bomb Kevin Dobson turns 82
Hot Cat(s) of the Day: Say hello to Silver and other bodega cats the Gray Lady caught up with in NYC!
Feral House: Author Jeff Copeland's "Love You Madly, Holly Woodlawn" launched a few weeks ago and he tells me that "it’s getting a great response -- thankfully! The story is a fun, shocking but true showbiz memoir that’s upset the administration and [is] soon to be banned. But that’s what happens when you come clean and read everyone to filth." Order HERE.
Tuesday, March 18, 2025
Tennis Tuesday: Andrea Vavassori
No, it's not a mirage. Andrea Vavassori really is that sexy.
And how do you say "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" in Italian? More of the father/son tennis teases BELOW.
Monday, March 17, 2025
Remains of the Day (03/17)
Washington Blade: Dealer pleads guilty to drug sale that led to deaths of two D.C. gay men
The Caftan Chronicles: Paul Rudnick's always been (almost too) effortlessly funny -- and now he's going deeper
Manspread Monday: Probably not safe for work unless you man a glory hole for a living
Attitude: "White Lotus" producer explains gay kiss scene between brothers: "It’s not for shock" ... and what did you make of Sam Rockwell’s bizarre sex monologue? (In real life the Oscar winner is in a longtime relationship with Leslie Bibb who plays Kate, aka the closet Republican.)
The Randy Report: Hungary -- a member of the European Union -- looks to ban Pride events, allow facial recognition to identify participants
The Advocate: U.S. announces end to gender-affirming care for transgender veterans ... it also quietly reversed a policy ensuring that trans veterans be protected from discrimination at VA facilities
Interview: Dylan Efron on liars, leg day and jockstraps
Hot Cat of the Day: I have a new favorite bodega!
Last Call: Barracua -- legendary gay bar in Chelsea that opened in 1995 -- to close March 23. While this may seem inevitable, there was something comforting about one of my old haunts still being around. I've said it before but I'll say it again: Truly the end of an era.
RIP: Kevin Drum, influential early political blogger, dies at 66: "Mr. Drum married Marian Riegel in 1993. Along with her, his survivors include a sister, Karen. (His cats, Hilbert and Charlie, also survive him.)"
Weekend Tennis Roundup
Possibly sport-altering wins for Draper and Andreeva in the desert. Full report plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post -- and then some -- in my XL tennis roundup BELOW.
Happy St. Patrick’s Day!
May the luck of the Irish be with you all day long -- or better yet this guy. ☘️
Andy Humm shared these wise words:
St. Patrick and his followers on the subway today in New York. Hope he is here to drive the snakes out of the United States!
Saturday, March 15, 2025
Friday, March 14, 2025
Remains of the Day (03/14)
DM: Treasury Secretary Scott Bessent's messy money tangle with ex-lover Will Trinkle revealed ... Trinkle, who is the grandson of former Virginia governor and KKK sympathizer E. Lee Trinkle, then took up with Juan Manuel Granados who brought plenty of drama of his own. (ICYMI) Epilogue: The Farmington Country Club is said to have revoked Will's membership because video showed Granados -- with whom he shares two children but is no longer romantically involved -- instigated l'affaire Carlson.
NBC News: North Dakota Senate rejects resolution asking Supreme Court to overturn gay-marriage ruling
Saturday 'Stache: I’m thinking those are D cups
Queerty: Luke Evans "always" wears red briefs
Speedo Sunday: Oh, Daddy!
Matthew's Island; Models wearing gray Calvin Klein underwear
The Randy Report: Watch the trailer for "A Nice Indian Boy" starring Tony Award winner Jonathan Groff and Karan Soni ("Deadpool")
Hot Cat of the Day: Get out your hankies -- Aggie's back home now!
Beyond the Mile High Club: On a scale of 1 to 10, how embarrassed should I be that I couldn't take my eyes off THIS?
Thursday, March 13, 2025
On the Rag, Vol. 850
This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Antoni Porowski, Levy Van Wilgen, Colton Underwood, Chris Olsen (in tight pants) and more BELOW
Wednesday, March 12, 2025
Remains of the Day (03/12)
Attitude: Meet the men of Buenos Aires
Greg in Hollywood: Rosie O’Donnell moves to Ireland: “It has been heartbreaking to see what is happening” in the U.S. politically ... Meanwhile: Ellen's in Cotwolds now (ICYMI)
Wrestle Wednesday: "Wait -- I thought I was Coach's favorite."
MNPP: Parker Posey can't lose
Queerty: Gymnast Sam Phillips opens up about his new doc and being the only out athlete at a Big Ten school
HuffPost: Luke Fetherston brings depth to the "gay best friend" role In Amazon’s new "Picture This" rom-com
KIT212: "Maybe this should be the regular hockey uniform" (NSFW)
The Caftan Chronicles: Edmund White has nothing he won't say at this point
Boy Culture: "The White Lotus" nude scenes ranked
Hot Cat of the Day: It's good that we kept the original packaging in case we decide to return Harvey!
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Tuesday, March 11, 2025
Dobson High School: Class of ‘85
Kenneth in the (602)
As the 40th anniversary of my graduation from Dobson High School approaches, it seems fitting that I would wake up to this yearbook inscription I wrote four decades ago to a girl I tutored. (A big thank-you to Michelle for thinking of me and sending. I stand by my advice to "stay away from fractions and stoners" -- and bonus points if you can identity the song lyrics I quoted ... because I was 17!)
If there's a 40-year reunion in the works, I'm not aware of it. (In the top post on the Class of '85-specific Facebook group, someone named Rachel Davis writes: "DHS 85 Alum....just sent out the official Evite for 30th reunion. If you didn't get it, please message me your most current email address. Thanks!") As a Catholic-born closeted-gay agnostic at a massive school of Mormons, I was always more ripe for a fish-out-of-water afterschool special than becoming a reunion organizer. So it wouldn’t really surprise me if I somehow missed the boat.
At 17: Going up?
But I did recently find these photos on the school's Facebook alumni page, which believe it or not are now the only pictures I have from my commencement ceremony.
(Disturbingly, I found the images directly below the news that current Dobson football coach Richard Godsil had been arrested for sexual exploitation of a minor.)
It's no secret that Molly and Gary took laissez-faire parenting to the max. As such, no photos were taken that day -- not even of me in my gray honors cap and gown (as opposed to standard-issue blue ones). Four years later my parents knowingly skipped my college graduation ("there'll be so many people there you won't even know the difference," my mom said when I protested their conflicting travel plans), and I have no recollection of their being at my high-school ceremony. Perhaps my memory is wrong about this -- I do remember our going to Swensen's for ice cream with my grade-younger friend Kristen at some point to mark the occasion -- but suffice to say graduation day wasn't the big milestone occasion it was for so many others.
P.S. My tutee-cum-gal pal also shared this, which may be of interest to fans of the Sonic Thrills, who narrowly missed the notable alumni section on our school's Wikipedia entry:
Michelle writes:
Remember the band I hung out with in school and they came over to Suzanne's apt. And she screwed my crush, Tony? I found Jim Monarch, the lead singer. They sung at the Mason Jar. He was lead vocals for New Born South, The Voice and Sonic Thrills. I found my yearbook this morning.😁🤗memories!!!
Another song. Jim's the vocals.❤👍i used to be semi cool for about 2 years.😂
Jim Monarch weighed in on Mesa's own Hollywood Alley, aka "Arizona's Only Ultra-Chic Pissant Hip Dive Bar," HERE.
P.P.S.
Just stumbled upon this 2022 film that is apparently so low budget they couldn't afford an apostrophe. Has anyone watched it?
Writer/director Kyle Misak's movie is set in Southwest Michigan and tells the story of "an unorthodox high-school teacher with an outlandish persona [who] helps his small class of nine students get a better understanding of life."
Related: "Everybody Wants to Rule the World"
UPDATE:
A friend saw my post and then noticed this on FB, which prompted this exchange!
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