Monday, November 09, 2026

The Webb of Life


Had a wonderful time seeing legendary songwriter Jimmy Webb at City Winery with my friends David, Lynn and Lucy.

Webb, who is now 80 but still has something of a boyish look about him, treated us to a set that included "Galveston," "Up, Up and Away," "The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress," "All I Know," "Didn't We," "By the Time I Get to Phoenix," "MacArthur Park" and, of course, the incomparable "Wichita Lineman." (I still maintain that Maria McKee did the definitive version!)


He also performed several newer and lesser-known songs, with the awfully handsome singer-songwriter Pete Mancini joining him for part of the show, following an entertaining opening set.

The highlight of the evening for me wound up being the closing number, "Adios," which I fell ion love with in college when Linda Ronstadt included it on her smash album "Cry Like a Rainstorm, Howl Like the Wind" (1989).


In addition to being one of the finest songwriters of this generation, Webb is an incredible storyteller, somehow managing to humble-brag and be self-deprecating at the same time. 

Our table had the added bonus of hearing some behind-the-scenes gossip from David, who edited Webb's book "Tunesmith: Inside the Art of Songwriting" some 30 years ago and had plenty of fun memories about the process.


My only disappointment was that he didn't perform anything from what I consider his finest work: the songs he wrote for Art Garfunkel's 1977 album "Watermark," including "Crying in My Sleep," "Saturday Suit," "Paper Chase" and "Shine It on Me," the last of which contains perhaps the most codependent romantic lyrics of all time:
I remember times when you'd touch me 
And you'd, you'd freeze my spine 
We were looking in the mirror at the time 
I got confused and thought your eyes were mine
But that's a minor complaint about an evening spent in the company of such a remarkable talent.


As it happens, I've just started reading a biography of the '80s band Prefab Sprout, and wouldn't you know it, there's an entire chapter devoted to Webb's influence on frontman Paddy McAloon. 

Apparently, McAloon first heard "Wichita Lineman" while running past a pub as a schoolboy, an experience he later described as something akin to a chemical shift. 

It's fascinating to think about the connection between two songwriters whose work I've loved for so long -- and even more fascinating that the one born in 1946 is the one still performing live! 


How about that Little Island? 

Sunday, November 08, 2026

Weekend Tennis Roundup


Carlos Alcaraz conquers Paris, Quentin Halys and Pierre-Hugues Herbert delight the home crowd, Taylor Fritz's surprising shoulders, Jessica Pegula and Mirra Andreeva make peace, and lots more BELOW.

Friday, November 06, 2026

#FlashbackFriday


When I saw James Talarico celebrating his historic Senate victory at Whataburger, I had to laugh, because god knows my friends and I certainly spent half our lives there while in college back in Tempe -- shortly before he was even born. 

Talarico, who became the first Democrat elected to the Senate from Texas since 1988, stopped by the beloved burger chain in Austin early Wednesday morning, where he was joined by fellow election-night winner Gina Hinojosa, who had just unseated Governor Greg Abbott. The two toasted their victories with Whataburger's signature oversized orange-and-white drink cups as campaign staff and supporters packed the restaurant and passing motorists honked their horns.

Talarico even posted about the visit, writing: "First stop post-win: Whataburger."

There's no word on what he got to eat, but the whole scene brought back memories of countless late nights spent at the fast-food favorite with Greg and Chantal, where we apparently had nowhere better to be and never seemed to get tired of going.  

Upon texting the now-iconic photo of the Texans to Greg, he had the same thought I did:
But did he order a Whatachicken? That's what I need to know!
P.S. I wonder if he knows what ever became of Lillian, that girl who was part of our friend group before vanishing into the night at her family's motel in Apache Junction ...




One thing I'm not nostalgic about is being constantly broke! 


Scouting out a location in Tucson, where Greg transferred his junior year!


Thursday, November 05, 2026

Remains of the Day (11/05)


PinkNews: Drag performer Pattie Gonia makes good on a promise to post a nude photo if Democrats won the midterms 












Page Six: Heartbreaking to see what's become of Tatum O'Neal, whose lifelong battle with drug abuse culminated in a stroke that left her with aphasia, cognitive and memory impairments and mobility difficulties requiring a cane. (My friend wondered if these were photos of Granny from "The Beverly Hillbillies.") Son Kevin McEnroe goes into details on his mother's 63rd birthday HERE.

Love Natch


Damian and I marked 12 years together last night, a love affair I certainly never saw coming when I broke up with my longtime partner in early 2014, at the age of 46.

 

My guy and I -- who were set to be married in 2020 before Covid pushed our wedding to 2023 -- are television people when it comes to home life. But for special occasions, classic movies on the big screen are our favorite. And last night we were fortunate enough to catch "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes," an absolute delight of a picture with Jane Russell and Marilyn Monroe at the top of their games -- expertly directed by Howard Hawks, aka Mr. Slim Keith for you "Swans" fans!


Thanks for the past dozen years, babe. And here's to many more. xo

On the Rag, Vol. 932

 

In this week's rag 'n' mag roundup: Jack Lowden talks James Bond rumors; Andrew Garfield takes on Sam Altman; Leo Reich finds the funny in modern gay life; David Archuleta embraces his sexuality; Tom Welling reflects on "Smallville"; and more BELOW.