Wednesday, June 11, 2025
Remains of the Day (06/11)
Washington Blade: Judge temporarily blocks executive orders targeting LGBTQ, HIV groups
The Advocate: Everyone knew Pee-wee, but few knew Paul Reubens. His lesbian sister talks about her very private brother.
Wrestle Wednesday: Orange crush
Kirkus Reviews: Best books of the 21st century (so far)
MetroWeekly: Teen sentenced in murder of D.C. DJ the Barber
Hot Cats of the Day: A cat and a lowercase cat
Pre-Grindr: A peek at NYC's cruising past
RIP: Just heard the news that Brian Wilson has died at 82. I don’t care if it’s a cliche, he is unquestionably the most gifted musician of my lifetime. So grateful I got to see him perform the Beach Boys’ legendary “Pet Sounds” in its entirety back in 2017 at Radio City Music Hall. May he find in death the peace he never experienced among us mortals.
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
Boroughs of Laughs
Not sure if I've posted this before, but it's awfully fun. Just need to fix "Sex and the City" and add "Kate & Allie" to the West Village!
Tennis Tuesday: Ollie Muhl
Oliver "Ollie" Muhl -- yet another internet personality with millions of followers whom I've never heard of -- even counts the ATP Tour as a fan. See why BELOW.
Sunday, June 08, 2025
58 Candles
Ptown birthday with the hubby. The world’s a mess (it’s in my kiss), but I’m still a lucky guy.
🙏❤️🎂
Unplanned layover in Boston.
Friday, June 06, 2025
Weekend Tennis Roundup
UPDATE:
OMFG, Carlos! Damian and I were in our adorable rental on Masonic in Ptown intermittently watching -- and then turning off in horror -- as it looked like Alcaraz was going to go down. The way he came back from two sets and then later three championship points to defend his title has turned me from a fan into a superfan!
Major number two for Coco! Neither Gauff nor Aryna Sabalenka played particularly well. But all the credit in the world to the young American for being the steadier of the two, defeating the Belarussian 6-7(5), 6-2, 6-4 to win her first title at Roland Garros.
Afterward, veterans Marcel Granollers and Horacio Zeballos won the men’s doubles final for their first major title together at the combined age of 79.
And in the last women's match of Roland Garros 2025, the Italian No. 2 seeds Sara Errani and Jasmine Paolini held off unseeded Anna Danilina of Kazakhstan and Aleksandra Krunic of Serbia 6-4, 2-6, 6-1 to capture the women's doubles title. What a fortnight for 38-year-old Errani to take home two trophies!
So for the first time in forever we actually have the No. 1 and 2 seeds from both the men's and women's games squaring off in a major final. I'm heading to Provincetown for the weekend -- my birthday is Sunday -- so decided to post this smorgasbord of ATP beef in advance, which you can chew on BELOW.
Remains of the Day (06/06)
The Caftan Chronicles: The history of gay American restaurants is now in a book!
The Randy Report: Scientists announce major breakthrough in search for HIV cure
Saturday 'Stache: Sam he am
MetroWeekly: Michael Urie keeps getting more adorable
Speedo Sunday: Bryce Chapman
Queerty: These muscle daddies on "House Hunters" have got all the gays wondering the same exact thing
Hive Mind Books: Authors Marc Zinaman ("Queer Happened Here") and David Kennerley ("Getting In") in conversation and signing
PinkNews: Tom Daley on 19-year age gap with husband Dustin Lance Black: "I’m the more mature person"
Song of the Day: "Say You Will" by Ivy, the band's first effort since the Covid-related death of Adam Schlesinger
Hot Cat of the Day: Somebody REALLY wants in to see Dad
RIP, Edmund White: The patron saint of queer lit had HIV for 40+ years, and survived two strokes, a heart attack and the prevailing attitude that to be serious, one shouldn't be sexual
Can't get enough diner dates and bathhouse chili? My friend caught up with author Erik Piepenburg HERE.
Thursday, June 05, 2025
On the Rag, Vol. 860
This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Ollie Muhl, Zane Phillips, Dimitris Toufexis, Benito Skinner, Kit Williamson, Patrick Schwarzenegger and much more BELOW.
Wednesday, June 04, 2025
Writer Edmund White Dies at 85
Doing an emergency blog post on my phone to report that Brad Gooch just shared the news that the writer Edmund White has died.
Brad writes:
Dear Ed White (1940-2025) longtime friend and hilarious, perennial lunch buddy. You were like no one else in my life or in all of our literatures. Another world has cratered. #edmundwhite
Much more will be said and written about this influential and prolific wordsmith -- whose debut novel, "Forgetting Elsa," came out in 1973 and whose most recent work, "The Loves of My Life: A Sex Memoir," came out earlier this year. But for now I’ll just say: Rest in peace, you dirty old man. You will be remembered.
UPDATE: The appreciations are pouring in BELOW.
Tuesday, June 03, 2025
Mirror Man
Just a reminder that I'm active (for my age) on Instagram -- gym selfies and everything! -- where you can find me HERE.
Tennis Plays Final NYC Set
I had a realization as I stood enraptured in the sold-out crowd for the indie band Tennis's farewell concert in New York City -- with the Brooklyn and Verrazano bridges, Empire State and Chrysler buildings and World Trade Center, decked out for Pride, all within eyeshot: Music is my religion -- so if this is how others feel in their houses of worship, who is this anti-church agnostic to judge?*
Although I still have my legacy acts -- albeit with members of them dropping like flies -- that Tennis is calling it a career after 15 years, the same year my other "current" band (Saint Etienne), couldn't be worse timing. For me to accept a group that formed in the 21st century was a huge leap(!) and their dissolution leaves a huge hole in my entertainment pipeline.
Spoiler: The setlist felt perfect -- "I'll Haunt You," "Ladies Don't Play Guitar," "Always the Same," "Runner," "Matrimony," "One Night With the Valet," "My Emotions Are Blinding," "Weight of Desire," "Mean Streets," "Hotel Valet," "No Exit," "Glorietta/Pillow for a Cloud," "I Can Only Describe You," "In the Morning I'll Be Better," "Diamond Rings" (my personal favorite), "How to Forgive" and “Need Your Love” with "Pollen Song" and "12 Blown Tires" as the encore. Damian later mentioned "I Miss That Feeling" was his only quibble. (I was surprised that their current album, the sublime "Face Down in the Garden," got relatively short shrift; was really hoping to hear "At the Wedding.") But since the tour is doubling as a "new release" slash "farewell" event, I think they struck just the right balance. (They have seven studio albums, two extended plays and countless singles to their credit.)
Where we -- and they -- go from here is anyone's guess. Damian is hoping their retirement will be akin to that of tennis player Danielle Collins. At the very least, I'm hoping Alaina Moore and Patrick Riley release more music in whatever shape suits them moving forward, because as Damian said to me during the show: "There will never be another band like this, will there?" And the answer seemed pretty clear to the thousands on hand, the biggest crowd of their careers: Definitely not.
*So long as what you worship doesn't interfere in other people's lives, liberties and pursuits of happiness.
P.S. Shoutout to Beauty Queen, aka Katie Iannitello, who sang a little backup. I'm discovering she has recorded a bunch of great music I'm digging into now!
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Tennis Tuesday
My husband saw this guy and asked me if he was "Tennis Tuesday worthy." The answer was obvious, but you can decide for yourself BELOW.
Monday, June 02, 2025
Remains of the Day (06/02)
NBC News: Trans people, local governments and educators face rising anti-LGBT hate, GLAAD report finds
PinkNews: Tom Daley "often" speaks to closeted queer athletes who don’t know what to do about coming out
The Advocate: Andy Cohen's high-end furniture sale benefits LGBT cause
Hot Cat of the Day: You might wanna get out your crying towel for this one. xo
Weekend Tennis Roundup
We're into the second week of Roland Garros and the surprises keep coming. See photo highlights BELOW.
Must say these quarterfinals are pretty tantalizing. Thoughts? Predictions?
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