Thursday, August 31, 2023
On the Rag, Vol. 775
A weekly look at what's making news in the gay magazines:
HotSpots: Meet Eli Ramos
Dallas Voice: The Land Down Under offers a warm welcome for gay travelers and an adventure to suit every taste
Between the Lines: Project helps local libraries serve as safe spaces for LGBT youth
DNA: See the sexiest men alive for 2023 ... most notably THIS GUY
Wednesday, August 30, 2023
Let Russian Daria Kasatkina Play Under the Rainbow Flag
The New York Times has a great piece on how the war in Ukraine has turned tennis into a battlefield, the highlight of which was learning that Elina Svitolina's grandmother refuses to leave Odesa because she couldn't bear to be apart from her cat! (I asked Damian if he'd leave the Upper West Side if Moscow invaded and reached, say, Weehawken, N.J., right across the Hudson River from us and he said no way!) Also fascinating to learn that many Ukrainians are abandoning their first language -- Russian -- and migrating to Ukrainian. But one critical point that I think is lost in the vitriol many Ukrainian players feel toward their Russian counterparts, who they see as complicit in their silence, is that they and their families could EASILY GET MURDERED if they are too vocal in their opposition to Putin. (Surely they must understand this, no?)
That goes double for Daria Kasatkina, who is in violation of Moscow's so-called "anti-gay-propaganda" -- now with even more hatred -- law by merely existing. Her suggestion of playing under the Rainbow flag may have been in jest, but it sounds like the perfect solution to me.
Remains of the Day (08/30)
Dazed: Who gets to write about gay men?
The Randy Report: Nigerian police raid alleged gay wedding, arrest 67 people
Wrestle Wednesday: Assume the position
NY Theater: Gays on Broadway. What is a gay sensibility?
Game Show Legend Bob Barker Is Dead at 99
Weekend Tennis Roundup
While I was getting hitched, Sebastian Baez won in Winston-Salem and Sara Sorribes Tormo won in Cleveland. Full report plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post -- including some not particularly safe for work(!) -- BELOW.
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Waking Up in Vegas
We're flying back to NYC today, but I wanted to give a shoutout to my nephew, AJ, whose 21st birthday weekend in Sin City inspired us to tack on our wedding ceremony when we realized everyone from my family -- including my Arizona-based mother who can no longer fly -- would be in a one place at one time!

Also, a big thank you to Damian's oldest sister, Patty, who represented his side of the family -- like my own, his mom doesn't fly these days, and others were overseas at the time of our last-minute affair -- as well as officiated the ceremony. She is a complete sweetheart and did a wonderful job! xo
Monday, August 28, 2023
At Last
My special guy and I finally tied the knot yesterday, at the famed Little Church of the West. It was nothing like we had originally planned — Las Vegas isn’t our style, nor is dressing up in 103-degree heat. (Our gray tuxedos matched our cat Harvey’s to a T!) But after Covid, two cancer battles and an arson left our families reeling, this turned out to be just the right moment to have a small ceremony for my Southwest brood, along with a couple of special guests from around the country.
I’m sure I will post more later. But I quickly wanted to share the joyous news with you all, while soaking in the tub at the Waldorf-Astoria on the Strip, pretending I’m in my beloved (212).
❤️☘️🇦🇷
First dance: "Wouldn't It Be Loverly?" by Rosanne Cash
Friday, August 25, 2023
Remains of the Day (08/25)
Saturday 'Stache: When all your friends hang left but you hang right
Boy Culture: This post was clearly for Allan Carr and me
People: Director of Black Voices for Trump is held in jail without bond, accused of assaulting FBI agent
Speedo Sunday: He aims to tease
Hot Cat of the Day: Surprisingly deep interview with Andy Roddick ... and his kitty!
On the Rag, Vol. 774
A weekly look at what's making news in the gay magazines:
Gay Times: The surreal comedy cosmos of Mawaan Rizwan
Metro Weekly: 'Red, White & Royal Blue' director Matthew Lopez frames his hot takes on love scenes, biased movie ratings and the B in LGBTQ
Dallas Voice: Drag Wars!
San Francisco Bay Times: 'We are one!': Be part of the LGBT community’s response to the tragic fires in Maui
Page 1 Roundup (08/25)
The New York Times: Donald Trump’s mug shot is unprecedented. And that’s just the beginning of its significance, our critic writes.
The Wall Street Journal: Trump’s mug shot released after he surrenders in Georgia
The Washington Post: Trump mug shot released after booking in Fulton County Jail
Atlanta Journal Constitution: Trump says he will never surrender moments after surrendering
Thursday, August 24, 2023
Fuzz Cut
Some fun stuff already happening out at the Billie Jean King Tennis Center, including mixed-doubles action, a slice-backhand competition, a star-studded benefit for Ukraine plus the return of Novak Djokovic's impersonations! Looking forward to our annual pilgrimage to Flushing Meadows over Labor Day weekend. 🎾
P.S. Have a look at the draw HERE.
Any predictions?
Wednesday, August 23, 2023
Woman Who Shoved Beloved Singing Coach Pleads Guilty to First-Degree Manslaughter
City Council member Erik Bottcher just shared this update on a case that horrified New Yorkers:
Lauren Pazienza pleaded guilty on Wednesday to first-degree manslaughter for fatally shoving Penn South resident Barbara Maier Gustern, a beloved, 87-year-old Broadway singing coach last March. Pazienza reached an agreement with the Manhattan district attorney’s office to serve eight years in prison and five years of post-release supervision. I want to thank the Manhattan DA and NYPD for their work on this case. While this will not bring Barbara back, I’m grateful that her killer is being brought to justice.
Amen.
The AP reports:
Lauren Pazienza, 28, teared up in court as she admitted randomly attacking Barbara Maier Gustern on March 10, 2022. Gustern, whose students included Blondie singer Debbie Harry, lay bleeding on a sidewalk as Pazienza walked away, prosecutors said. Gustern died five days later.“Today’s plea holds Pazienza accountable for her deadly actions,” Manhattan District Attorney Alvin Bragg said in a statement.
Gustern’s relatives, some of whom were in court, said they were disappointed with Pazienza's plea deal and agreed-upon prison sentence -- a fraction of the maximum 25 years she would've faced if convicted at trial.
At the risk of sounding like my mother, I hope Pazienza uses her time behind bars to think about how her unbridled rage and utter disregard for human life hurt so many.
Remains of the Day (08/23)
Greg in Hollywood: ‘And Just Like That’ lands Season 3 renewal at Max
Wrestle Wednesday: Big cheese in Wisconsin
Vanity Fair: ‘The Last of Us’ director Peter Hoar on the gay love story he had worked his whole career toward
Washington Blade: Two D.C. gay bar customers stabbed on sidewalk near Dupont Circle
Hot Cat of the Day: Harvey models his gray tux for all to admire!
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