Monday, January 26, 2026

Remains of the Day (01/26)





Greg in HollywoodRobby Benson at 70 ... time to watch "Ode to Billy Joe"?!














Hot Cat of the Day: Well hello, Mr. Handsome!


Meals on Heels: Just finished -- and thoroughly enjoyed -- Erik Piepenburg's "Dining Out: First Dates, Defiant Nights, and Last Call Disco Fries at America's Gay Restaurants," which explores the cultural history of LGBTQ dining establishments as vital spaces for community, activism and self-expression from the 1920s to the present. (Loved the shoutout!) His event at the New York Public Library was postponed because of the snowstorm. But you can hear his appearance on the "This Way Out" podcast HERE.


Gabe Lopez, Gay Pop Visionary and 'Drag Race' Musical Force, Dies at 49


Was sorry to read about the death of Gabe Lopez, a singer, songwriter and producer whom I knew of through his work with Belinda Carlisle. He was 49. In an Instagram post, his family said the cause was "a brief but intense battle with lymphoma."

Based in Los Angeles, Lopez built a career that bridged artist and behind-the-scenes hitmaker. He became widely known for his work as a music producer on the Rusicals for "RuPaul’s Drag Race," a role he expanded in 2019 to include RuPaul’s Drag Race Live in Las Vegas, which opened at The Flamingo in January 2020. He also produced music for television series including "The Other Two" and "Gayme Show."

Lopez was a trusted collaborator for both legacy pop acts and contemporary artists. His credits included work with the aforementioned Carlisle, the Go-Go’s and New Kids on the Block, for whom he co-wrote and produced multiple tracks across several albums. He also produced and co-wrote all of the songs on Carlisle’s album "Wilder Shores," released in 2017.

Carlisle paid tribute in an emotional statement, calling Lopez “my beautiful friend, creative collaborator and producer of my last two albums, and an incredible artist in his own right.” She wrote that she was “devastated and heartbroken,” adding, “I can’t remember being in so much pain.” Carlisle remembered their 12 years of working together as filled with joy and creativity, saying she could not imagine her life without him. “Godspeed, Gabe -- you were always an angel, now it’s time to soar,” she wrote, adding, “I love you and will always hold you dear to me. May his music live forever.”


Gabe Lopez (far left) with Belinda Carlisle & Co. at the launch of her "Wilder Shores" album in London back in 2017

In addition, Lopez produced the vocals on “Club Zero” by the Go-Go’s for their 2020 documentary, which premiered at Sundance, further cementing his reputation as a go-to creative partner for artists navigating both nostalgia and reinvention.

As a solo artist, Lopez released a string of warmly received albums that blended classic pop hooks with candid storytelling. His debut, "This Is About You" (2006), earned strong reviews and saw all 17 tracks licensed for film and television. It was followed by "Shine Like the Sun" (2011), which included the anti–Prop. 8 anthem “No Hate,” embraced by the NOH8 Campaign.

Later releases included "California Blues" (2015), featuring backing vocals from Belinda Carlisle; "Lasso" (2017), released alongside a UK tour with Carlisle; and "God Bless the Queens" (2018), a celebratory, defiant album that debuted on the iTunes charts and underscored Lopez’s pride in his identity and community.

Friends and collaborators are remembering Lopez on my social-media feeds as endlessly generous with his time and talent -- a true pro who welcomed ideas, worked through the night when needed, and lifted every project he touched. He is survived by his family and a wide circle of friends and collaborators. 

Weekend Tennis Roundup


This year's Australian Open seedings have held up in record fashion. Full report plus all the beef that's fit to post including Pam Shriver's hot sons BELOW.

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Once More Unto the Sleet


What a fun way to wake up! Is this what it's like to live in Chicago? 


Harvey's intrigued ...

Friday, January 23, 2026

Remains of the Day (01/23)

 


ICYMI: I revisit my own stub collection -- Go-Go's, Missing Persons, Thompson Twins, the Smiths -- HERE 

















Speedo Sunday: Green with envy


Hot Cat of the Day: Fear not -- Rudy is safe at home


Reading list: Finished the "On the Road" audiobook. Will Patton did an incredible job of bringing the characters to life in a way my teen self never could. (Verdict: I think audiobooks are a great alternative in certain situations. My brother Terence told me he wanted to hear Frank McCourt tell the story of "Angela’s Ashes" and "'Tis" -- and now I do, too.) Then I finished reading "Gay Bar: Why We Went Out," which (for better or worse) wound up being a little more about why the author and his partner went out than a general look at why gay people crave our own spaces. Also polished off Molly Shannon's memoir, detailing the car accident that left her without a mother and down a sister and cousin. (God, she's a doll!) Next up: Thinking of finally starting Erik Piepenburg's look at gay restaurants, "Dining Out." Let me know if you've read it and what you thought.

Thursday, January 22, 2026

On the Rag, Vol. 892

 

This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Wyatt Dorion, Pietro Boselli, Tommy Paul, Lorenzo Musetti, Jack Tracy, Mike Maimone and more BELOW.