I waited nine months or so to post our Monte Carlo Masters 1000 photos "to the grid" on Instagram, so vowed I wouldn't do the same with Indian Wells. Although I've already shared a number of pictures from our memorable trip this month to Palm Springs, Joshua Tree National Park and Los Angeles on my blog, you can see the fruits of my labor -- all eight posts(!) -- BELOW.
Saturday, March 28, 2026
Friday, March 27, 2026
Did Blogger 'Large Tony' Really Die in 2023?
Do I smell catfish on the grill?
Was stunned yesterday to discover that the well-endowed Tennessee mountain man who heated up the internet back in the day -- aptly named Large Tony -- had supposedly died in 2023, just two months shy of his 48th birthday.
Although I know I'm not alone -- I now see that BosGuy wrote about it contemporaneously and that Andy Cohen was sniffing around at the time, too -- I have a long history with whoever was behind this persona that was simultaneously revealing (those photos!) and anonymous and I'm kind of reeling from this news, however belated.
Yesterday he popped into my head, so I shot him an email, like we would do from time to time, only for it to bounce back. I then sent him this DM (on the erstwhile Twitter) -- and I pray that I'm onto something.
I wrote:
You just popped into my head so I sent you an email -- only for it to bounce back. From there I checked on here and saw a notice saying you had died in 2023. How I hope this is not true, just a way for you to retire the Large Tony persona. But whatever the case may be, thank you for your kindness over the years. You’ve been a welcome online presence since the early days of blogging, and I hope you are at peace wherever you are today.
But then I started to see the whole "Large Tony" persona through 2026 eyes:
Did no one in the state of Tennessee ever recognize him and reveal his identity -- even now? How did this busy young man manage to find time to have a "special" online relationship with virtually every person I've ever encountered? And who posted that succinct update for about his untimely death for his “fans”? Unless "The Attorney" (as he referred to his supposed long-term partner) somehow had full access to his accounts, which seems unlikely given that I don't think my own husband could get into mine, I'm having a hard time buying it.
Suddenly the whole thing is starting to give me a JT LeRoy vibe. (The slick black-and-white photo with the birth and death dates seems off, too.) I think I'm onto something here ... or perhaps thinking this way is just easier than accepting that his death could be true.
Remains of the Day (03/27)
Saturday 'Stache: Bedroom thighs
Capital & Main: California teachers face new attacks on LGBTQ history lessons
Speedo Sunday: Robert Conrad in a skimpy orange number and dog tags
Soap Opera Digest: "Heartbroken" Van Hansis talks Marco’s exit from "General Hospital," Lucas’s future
Washington Blade: The outrage economy is not the LGBTQ community, writes Fabian Basabe
Hot Cat of the Day: Harvey, if he were available in black!
HarperCollins: New Yorkers gave Clem Burke a proper farewell this week at Bowery Palace. Now comes word that the late Blondie drummer's memoir is slated for release in May, although the link I see shows it's not available in my/his country?
Thursday, March 26, 2026
East Village Pays Tribute to the Late Clem Burke
It's always sobering when a childhood hero dies. But what a joy it was last night to be in a room surrounded by people who were feeling the exact same way about Blondie drummer Clem Burke, who exited the stage last April at 70 after a battle with cancer. In addition to a large group of musicians on hand to perform songs that Clem either played on or adored -- check out the list on the Bowery Palace advert, above -- people shared stories and short films were projected on the wall, most notably a montage of notable drummers attempting to keep up with Clem's legendary performance on the Blondie hit "Dreaming." (Has there ever been a better drum part?!!!)
Danny Sage stunned (me!) by opening with "Poet's Problem" -- beyond a deep cut -- then later did "Union City Blue," saying it was Clem's favorite Blondie song to perform.
Kathy Valentine, a Clem ex and longtime friend of the drummer, co-organized the event with Jesse Malin, who is recovering from a spinal stroke.*
Each of them performed, with Jesse singing "Do You Remember Rock 'n' Roll Radio?" -- in honor of Clem's short time in the Ramones (he was dubbed Elvis Ramone!) -- and Kathy, who I've always thought sounded a bit like Debbie Harry, taking the lead on "Hanging on the Telephone," as well as "Looking for a Kiss" (New York Dolls) and "Make Me Shake," a song she says Clem helped her write for her Bluebonnets.
Frankie Clarke did a rousing cover of "Rip Her to Shreds" as well as "Rockaway Beach" by the Ramones.
There were many more -- including Tommy Stinson performing "The Kids Are Alright [sic]" in honor of Clem's obsession with the Who, Wally Palmar doing "Talking in Your Sleep" and "What I Like About You" a nod to Clem's time in the Romantics (even though he didn't play on either), and someone called Belle Blue brought the house down with her take on "One Way or Another" -- but I was too busy taking it all in to jot down the complete setlist, even getting choked up at one point, realizing I'll never see the Blondie I've known and loved all these years perform live again.
I'm so grateful I made a last-second decision to attend the band's Pier 17 gig in 2022, which almost felt gratuitous at the time as they had been touring a lot. As it would happen, Olivia Newton-John, my first blond obsession, had just died and it got me thinking about Debbie's mortality. Little did we know then.
Clem cocktails: Honey, here's looking at you!
Almost Blue (Belle)
After the show, ready to fade away and radiate ...
*Malin's on the mend, back performing his “Silver Manhattan” show, which Variety calls a success on virtually every level: It’s not a conventional musical, but more of a live memoir punctuated with songs from all across his career -- a kind of East Village, punk rock version of “Springsteen on Broadway.”
On the Rag, Vol. 900
This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Martine Souza, Manfred, Steve Howey, Dan Levy, Taylor Ortega, Barry Manilow and more BELOW.
Wednesday, March 25, 2026
Remains of the Day (03/25)
Brian Ferrari: When Marianne Faithfull covered After Dark in 1980
Socialite Life: Alan Ritchson’s neighbor started altercation, sources claim; here’s what the viral fight video didn’t show
AFP: Hungary's hard-pressed LGBTQ people say exit of nationalist PM Viktor Orban is only half the battle
Interview: Crocodiles, influencers and tennis pros collide as Club Lacoste takes over the Miami Open
Hot Cat of the Day: My adorable niece claims she went to college in Vermont because she got a softball scholarship, but I know the real reason!
The Caftan Chronicles: Michael Rajner’s heroic persistence helps stave off a Florida HIV meds crisis -- for now
Driver 8: Talk about your threeway potential ... and we know what a horndog Madison is based on that REVENGE VIDEO!
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