Wednesday, August 30, 2023

Let Russian Daria Kasatkina Play Under the Rainbow Flag


The New York Times has a great piece on how the war in Ukraine has turned tennis into a battlefield, the highlight of which was learning that Elina Svitolina's grandmother refuses to leave Odesa because she couldn't bear to be apart from her cat! (I asked Damian if he'd leave the Upper West Side if Moscow invaded and reached, say, Weehawken, N.J., right across the Hudson River from us and he said no way!) Also fascinating to learn that many Ukrainians are abandoning their first language -- Russian -- and migrating to Ukrainian. But one critical point that I think is lost in the vitriol many Ukrainian players feel toward their Russian counterparts, who they see as complicit in their silence, is that they and their families could EASILY GET MURDERED if they are too vocal in their opposition to Putin. (Surely they must understand this, no?) 


That goes double for Daria Kasatkina, who is in violation of Moscow's so-called "anti-gay-propaganda" -- now with even more hatred -- law by merely existing. Her suggestion of playing under the Rainbow flag may have been in jest, but it sounds like the perfect solution to me. 

Remains of the Day (08/30)





Wrestle Wednesday: Assume the position








Game Show Legend Bob Barker Is Dead at 99


ICYMI: I'd like to think the handsy game-show host is laughing at this post somewhere on soundstage in the sky! Full obituary HERE.


Read about the time Bob asked a strapping gay contestant about having a girlfriend HERE!

Weekend Tennis Roundup


While I was getting hitched, Sebastian Baez won in Winston-Salem and Sara Sorribes Tormo won in Cleveland. Full report plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post -- including some not particularly safe for work(!) -- BELOW.

Tweet Cute: A Blogger and a Reader Follow Each Other to the Altar


Aug. 30, 2023

Luis Damian Veron and Kenneth Michael Walsh were married Aug. 27 at the Little Church of the West in Las Vegas. Alejandra Paloma Rodriguez, Mr. Veron's sister and an ordained Universal Life Church minister, officiated. 

The couple had originally planned to wed at the New York City Marriage Bureau in early 2020 followed by a rooftop reception at The Kimberly Hotel, before the Centers for Disease Control recommended that social events be postponed. 

Mr. Veron (right), 45, is a senior project manager at Trustforte Corporation, an academic equivalency and translation service in Manhattan. He received a bachelor of arts in political science from Rutgers University and a master's in international relations from New York University. He is also a freelance writer, whose articles and reviews have appeared in The Daily Beast and Towleroad.com.

He is the son of Benedicto Damian Veron, of Gainesville, Fla., and Angela Elsa Veron, of Landing, N.J. His parents emigrated from Argentina in 1970, shortly after the birth of their first daughter. 

Mr. Veron’s maternal grandmother, the late Josefina, as a young widow spent days on end outside Casa Rosada, the presidential palace in Buenos Aires, attempting to garner the attention of Eva Peron, wife of President Juan Peron, in the hope of procuring a home for herself and her three small children through the first lady's Eva Peron Foundation. The effort proved fruitful. In fact, shortly after moving into the new residence, Mr. Veron's grandmother decided she preferred a better-situated house on a corner lot and successfully lobbied to relocate. (The home remains in the family to this day.) 

Mr. Walsh, 56, is a publishing editor at The Wall Street Journal in Manhattan. He was previously a staff editor for The New York Times News Service. He graduated with a bachelor's degree from the Walter Cronkite School of Journalism and Communication at Arizona State University. He has written the award-winning LGBT blog Kenneth in the (212) since 2005, and his memoir, "Wasn't Tomorrow Wonderful?," was published in 2014 by Riverdale Avenue Books.

He is a son of the late William Walsh, of Schuylkill Haven, Pa., and Molly Chilinski, of Eloy, Ariz., and a stepson of Gary Chilinski, of Eloy, Ariz.

Mr. Walsh’s brother, the late Bill Walsh, was a longtime copy editor at The Washington Post and the author of several books about editing, including "Lapsing Into a Comma" (McGraw Hill, 2000) and "The Elephants of Style" (McGraw Hill, 2004).

Mr. Walsh's paternal grandfather, the late Michael "Mickey" Walsh, was a noted boxer and fight promoter in Schuylkill County, Pa., and a sports writer at the Pottsville Republican. Mr. Walsh's paternal great-great-grandfather, Martin Bergan, was hanged in 1879 for his role in the Molly Maguires, a secret society of pro-union Irish immigrant coal miners in Pennsylvania. A 1970 film directed by Martin Ritt and starring Sean Connery and Richard Harris, "The Molly Maguires," recounted the ordeal.

The couple met through the social-media platform then known as Twitter, after Mr. Veron, an ardent Rafael Nadal fan, began responding to Mr. Walsh's tweets about tennis. (Mr. Walsh roots for Novak Djokovic.) During their first date, at a Cuban diner in Chelsea, the couple came to realize that they had had a brief online flirtation in the early aughts, but Mr. Walsh resisted pursuing it at the time because he "didn't want to deal" with someone who lived across the Hudson in New Jersey. This time he was more than willing. 

In 2019, after a five-year courtship, Mr. Veron proposed on the balcony of a hotel in the Recoleta neighborhood of Buenos Aires. (Mr. Walsh was stunned -- marriage wasn’t something gay people his age were allowed to ever dream about growing up -- before quickly saying yes.) Then in 2023, with the pandemic and several family crises abated, Mr. Walsh (re)proposed to Mr. Veron at the couple’s Upper West Side apartment -- with a plan hatched to bring the wedding closer to Mr. Walsh’s mother, who is no longer able to travel as far as the East Coast. 

To honor their families' heritage, the ceremony featured a bilingual reading of the South American poet Pablo Neruda's "Love Sonnet XVII," first in Spanish by Mr. Veron's sister and then in English by Mr. Walsh's niece, Ally Rose Jaurigue. Later, an Irish ring-warming ceremony was performed, with Mr. Walsh's brother and best man, Terence Ryan Walsh, overseeing the ritual.

The reception was held in the private lounge at Rí Rá Irish Pub, with literary-themed centerpieces designed by Mr. Walsh's sister, Jennifer Dianne Jaurigue, and a cake topper that included a nod to the couple's gray tuxedo cat, Harvey. (The grooms wore matching gray tuxes in honor of their fashionable feline.) The couple's first dance was to a modern interpretation of "Wouldn't It Be Loverly" -- from the Lerner and Loewe musical "My Fair Lady" -- that Rosanne Cash, then a neighbor of the couple's, performed and dedicated to the men on the occasion of what was supposed to be their wedding date, May 9, 2020, before Covid put those plans on hold.

Upon hearing that the nuptials had at last taken place more than three years later, with her song as the musical highlight of the reception, Ms. Cash wrote: "Oh my. I'm honored to be a part of this. Congratulations!"

Tuesday, August 29, 2023

Waking Up in Vegas


We're flying back to NYC today, but I wanted to give a shoutout to my nephew, AJ, whose 21st birthday weekend in Sin City inspired us to tack on our wedding ceremony when we realized everyone from my family -- including my Arizona-based mother who can no longer fly -- would be in a one place at one time! 


Also, a big thank you to Damian's oldest sister, Patty, who represented his side of the family -- like my own, his mom doesn't fly these days, and others were overseas at the time of our last-minute affair -- as well as officiated the ceremony. She is a complete sweetheart and did a wonderful job! xo 

Monday, August 28, 2023

At Last


My special guy and I finally tied the knot yesterday, at the famed Little Church of the West. It was nothing like we had originally planned — Las Vegas isn’t our style, nor is dressing up in 103-degree heat. (Our gray tuxedos matched our cat Harvey’s to a T!) But after Covid, two cancer battles and an arson left our families reeling, this turned out to be just the right moment to have a small ceremony for my Southwest brood, along with a couple of special guests from around the country. 


I’m sure I will post more later. But I quickly wanted to share the joyous news with you all, while soaking in the tub at the Waldorf-Astoria on the Strip, pretending I’m in my beloved (212).
 ❤️☘️🇦🇷


Friday, August 25, 2023

Remains of the Day (08/25)













Speedo Sunday: He aims to tease


On the Rag, Vol. 774

A weekly look at what's making news in the gay magazines:








Dallas Voice: Drag Wars!




Page 1 Roundup (08/25)
















Thursday, August 24, 2023

Fuzz Cut


Some fun stuff already happening out at the Billie Jean King Tennis Center, including mixed-doubles action, a slice-backhand competition, a star-studded benefit for Ukraine plus the return of Novak Djokovic's impersonations! Looking forward to our annual pilgrimage to Flushing Meadows over Labor Day weekend. 🎾


P.S. Have a look at the draw HERE.


Any predictions? 

Wednesday, August 23, 2023

Woman Who Shoved Beloved Singing Coach Pleads Guilty to First-Degree Manslaughter


City Council member Erik Bottcher just shared this update on a case that horrified New Yorkers:
Lauren Pazienza pleaded guilty on Wednesday to first-degree manslaughter for fatally shoving Penn South resident Barbara Maier Gustern, a beloved, 87-year-old Broadway singing coach last March. Pazienza reached an agreement with the Manhattan district attorney’s office to serve eight years in prison and five years of post-release supervision. I want to thank the Manhattan DA and NYPD for their work on this case. While this will not bring Barbara back, I’m grateful that her killer is being brought to justice.
Amen. 

The AP reports:
Lauren Pazienza, 28, teared up in court as she admitted randomly attacking Barbara Maier Gustern on March 10, 2022. Gustern, whose students included Blondie singer Debbie Harry, lay bleeding on a sidewalk as Pazienza walked away, prosecutors said. Gustern died five days later. 

“Today’s plea holds Pazienza accountable for her deadly actions,” Manhattan District Attorney Alvin Bragg said in a statement. 
Gustern’s relatives, some of whom were in court, said they were disappointed with Pazienza's plea deal and agreed-upon prison sentence -- a fraction of the maximum 25 years she would've faced if convicted at trial.
At the risk of sounding like my mother, I hope Pazienza uses her time behind bars to think about how her unbridled rage and utter disregard for human life hurt so many.

Remains of the Day (08/23)






Wrestle WednesdayBig cheese in Wisconsin














Hot Cat of the Day: Harvey models his gray tux for all to admire!