Monday, January 19, 2026

Weekend Tennis Roundup


Aussie Open warm-up titles for Machac, Menšík, Andreeva and Cocciaretto. Full report plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post BELOW.

Thursday, January 15, 2026

On the Rag, Vol. 891

 

This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features the Boxers Super Bowl party; Colton Underwood; Paul Mescal; Douglas Sills; and more BELOW.

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

'Gay Bar': You Never Forget Your First

 

OK, my reading resurgence continues, and now I’m finally deep into Jeremy Atherton Lin’s "Gay Bar: Why We Went Out." I was a little lukewarm at first, thinking he was a twink writing about dancing to Nicki Minaj in the 2010s (yawn).

Then I got to the second chapter and realized he’s also Gen X, and that we overlapped in Los Angeles -- which means he does indeed write about places I once frequented ... and boy, is it fun!

It got me thinking about my relationship with bent watering holes, and also made me realize that I have not one but three “first” gay bars, which I explain HERE.


Senior year: With my friend Greg in my off-campus bedroom in Phoenix pre-gaming before going to Preston's back in 1989.

Remains of the Day (01/14)







Die Alone With MeEx-a-sketch?


NYT: Joel Kim Booster weds partner John Michael Sudsina after four years together 


Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Tennis Tuesday

 

Owen's looking for a partner. 


More HERE.

Monday, January 12, 2026

Remains of the Day (01/12)








EW: Can we please STOP with purity tests and absolutism -- and the corresponding vilification -- and accept that sometimes decent people may have opinions that other decent people don't agree with? It's a HUGE turnoff to centrist voters, but apparently losing all three branches of government has taught us nothing.










Hot Cat of the Day: Another day of cuddles