Showing posts with label david sedaris. Show all posts
Showing posts with label david sedaris. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 29, 2020

Page 1 Roundup (01/29)














If you're turned off by nutty Jonathan Chait, above, try this:

David Frum: Bernie can't wait
















Thursday, December 13, 2018

10 Books That Make Perfect Holiday Gifts

May I humbly suggest these titles as holiday gifts this year?


Order HERE.

"Bird on a Blade" by Rosanne Cash and Dan Rizzie

With an iconic sound that transcends country, pop, rock, and blues, Rosanne Cash’s voice and vision have captured American life for generations of fans. Over the same time span, internationally acclaimed artist Dan Rizzie has wowed collectors with his evocative paintings, prints, and collages. Now, in a book that is as unique as their artistry, Cash and her longtime friend Rizzie have teamed up to create an extraordinary hybrid. Blending images created by Rizzie with strands of lyrics from a variety of Cash’s songs (including new material from her latest album, "She Remembers Everything," as well as her beloved classics), "Bird on a Blade" is a mosaic designed to inspire the imagination and soothe the heart.


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"FlabberGassed: A Mister Puss Mystery" by Michael Craft

In the idyllic little town of Dumont, Wisconsin, wealthy widow Mary Questman adopts an exotic stray cat, Mister Puss, who begins to talk to her. At least she thinks so. Mary's young friend, gay architect Brody Norris, soon finds another reason to worry about Mary's judgment when she decides to help finance a bizarre weight-loss enterprise called FlabberGas, the invention of a flamboyant local dermatologist, Dr. Francis Frumpkin. Brody's skepticism is partially overcome when Dr. Frumpkin commissions him to design the first of a planned chain of FlabberGas clinics. But then, during a public demonstration of Frumpkin's gimmicky new treatment, a volunteer is gassed to death in a hideous mishap that turns out to be no accident. It was murder, all right. Suspects abound. And Brody is drawn into the role of amateur sleuth, assisting Sheriff Thomas Simms.


Order HERE.

"Mlvc60: Madonna's Most Amazing Magazine Covers: A Visual Record" by Matthew Rettenmund

Madonna has been a force to be reckoned with in popular culture for nearly 40 years. As she turns 60 (b. August 16, 1958), "MLVC60" documents over 1,000 of her most incredible magazine covers, using them to chronicle her rise to fame and her impact on the world.


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"100 Christmas Wishes: Vintage Holiday Cards from the New York Public Library" 

As Rosanne Cash, a patron and friend of the Library as well as a devoted fan of Christmas cards, says in her introduction “This collection of early Christmas postcards, housed for a century in the New York Public Library archives, distills those abiding wishes for the holidays from revelers from long ago and faraway, in a wish for peace, joy, magic, bounty, family, and for light to be shone ‘round the world at Christmas, past and future."


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"Driven: A Daughter's Odyssey" by Julie Heldman

In the mid-20th century, the Heldmans were tennis royalty. Julie was a volatile and gutsy tennis star, twice ranked number 5 in the world. Her mother, Gladys, was broadly admired for her unique magazine, World Tennis, and for engineering the women's tennis revolution. No one guessed that Gladys's hidden emotional abuse was the source of Julie's powerful drive. "Driven" is a highly readable insider's account of a pivotal time in women's tennis history; an in-depth look at Gladys's complex character; and the revealing story of Julie's interior journey, both on and off the court.


Order HERE.

"My Life as a Goddess" by Guy Branum

From a young age, Guy Branum always felt as if he were on the outside looking in. Self-taught, introspective, and from a stiflingly boring farm town, he couldn’t relate to his neighbors. While other boys played outside, he stayed indoors reading Greek mythology. And being gay and overweight, he got used to diminishing himself. But little by little, he started learning from all the sad, strange, lonely outcasts in history who had come before him, and he started to feel hope. In this collection of personal essays, Guy talks about finding a sense of belonging at Berkeley -- and stirring up controversy in a newspaper column that led to a run‑in with the Secret Service. He recounts the pitfalls of being typecast as the “Sassy Gay Friend,” and how, after taking a wrong turn in life (i.e. law school), he found stand‑up comedy and artistic freedom. He analyzes society’s calculated deprivation of personhood from fat people, and how, though it’s taken him a while to accept who he is, he has learned that with a little patience and a lot of humor, self-acceptance is possible. Written with Guy’s characteristic blend of wit, guile, and rumination, "My Life as a Goddess" is an unforgettable and deeply moving book by one of today’s most endearing and galvanizing voices in comedy.


Order HERE.

"Excuse Me While I Slip Into Someone More Comfortable" by Eric Poole

In 1977, Eric Poole is a talented high school trumpet player with one working ear, the height-to-weight ratio of a hat rack, a series of annoyingly handsome bullies, and a mother irrationally devoted to Lemon Pledge. But who he wants to be is a star…ANY star. With equal parts imagination, flair, and delusion, Eric proceeds to emulate a series of his favorite celebrities, like Barry Manilow, Halston, Tommy Tune, and Shirley MacLaine, in an effort to become the man he’s meant to be -- that is, anyone but himself. As he moves through his late teens and early twenties in suburban St. Louis, he casts about for an appropriate outlet for his talents. Will he be a trumpet soloist? A triple-threat actor/singer/dancer? A fashion designer in gritty New York City? Striving to become the son who can finally make his parents proud, Eric begins to suspect that discovering his personal and creative identities can only be accomplished by admitting who he really is. Picking up at the end of his first acclaimed memoir, "Where’s My Wand?," Poole’s journey from self-delusion to acceptance is simultaneously hysterical, heartfelt, and inspiring.


Order HERE.

"U.S. Open: 50 Years of Championship Tennis" 

Timed to coincide with the U.S. Open’s 50th anniversary, this exquisitely produced book celebrates the most electrifying event in tennis. All of the key moments and unforgettable personalities from the competition’s 50-year history are brought to life by vibrant, exclusive photography. This book provides a comprehensive look at the tournament, from the early years of tennis legends such as Billie Jean King and Arthur Ashe to iconic players such as Roger Federer and Serena Williams. Original contributions from journalists, players, coaches, and notable fans stand alongside gorgeous photography of the many household names who have made their mark competing on the game’s biggest stage. A perfect gift for any tennis fan, this book is a richly visual tribute to the sport, its fans, and its champions.


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"Joan Rivers Confidential" by Melissa Rivers and Scott Currie 

Joan Rivers is an enduring icon of the 20th century, and her wildly popular humor has appealed to generations of fans. With a career that began in the late 1950s, Joan kept mementos over the course of her entire working life, and "Joan Rivers Confidential" is a compilation of never-before-seen personal archives. Assembled by her daughter Melissa with Scott Currie, the book contains scripts and monologues, letters from famous friends, exchanges with fans, rare photographs, as well as classic and never-before-heard jokes—many simply scribbled on everything from hotel stationery to airplane boarding passes. Touching on subjects from her 50 years in show business ("The Tonight Show," Las Vegas, Elizabeth Taylor, Heidi Abromowitz, the red carpet, and "Fashion Police"), this is a revelatory and humor-filled insider look at the popular, multitalented comedian.


Order HERE.

"Calypso" by David Sedaris 

With "Calypso," Sedaris sets his formidable powers of observation toward middle age and mortality. Make no mistake: these stories are very, very funny--it's a book that can make you laugh 'til you snort, the way only family can. Sedaris's powers of observation have never been sharper, and his ability to shock readers into laughter unparalleled. But much of the comedy here is born out of that vertiginous moment when your own body betrays you and you realize that the story of your life is made up of more past than future.

Bonus idea!


Order HERE.

"Wasn't Tomorrow Wonderful: A Memoir" by Kenneth M. Walsh

In the summer of ’77, while other boys in the Midwest were busy playing Little League and flocking to see "Star Wars," young Kenny Walsh was obsessed with Chris Evert and Woody Allen movies -- and daydreamed about moving to New York City. But when his family headed west from the suburbs of Detroit to Phoenix, it was the first in a series of events that set his Big Apple ambitions on the wrong course. In this funny and moving memoir, Walsh recounts an idiosyncratic childhood that included an attempt to track down a crazed serial killer, a First Amendment battle with his fourth-grade principal, running the local KKK (that’s Kenny’s Kid Kare) babysitting service -- and the mysterious disappearance of his father. Post-college jobs took him to Hollywood and Washington, D.C. -- where trouble followed (porn stars, celebrity doppelgängers, anxiety disorders) -- yet he still didn’t feel at home. Walsh finally arrived in Manhattan the week of his thirty-first birthday … but was tomorrow as wonderful as he dreamed it would be?

Monday, December 03, 2018

Remains of the Day (12/03)




Boy Culture: I guess my days of using Tumblr are about to end

Hot Slut of the Day: The Pound Store Prince Hot Ginge Lolly that wants you to calmly suck it off

Towleroad: "Fathers" imagines a world where AIDS never happened and popper protect you from STDS


Instagram: "Real Husband" and former football player Kroy Biermann is the Speedo king

The Randy Report: James Comey drops challenge to GOP House subpoena in exchange for full transcript release

The Daily News: Melanie Griffith says Alec Baldwin refused her advances on the set of "Working Girl"

BosGuy: I may need to go to Boston for its annual Speedo Santa Run if these boys are participating!

Back2Stonewall: Alt-right troll Milo Yiannopoulos is a broke-ass bitch


Out: 'George Bush, serial killer': ACT UP’s fight against the president

The Washington Post: A timeline of Trump's misleading statements on Trump Tower Moscow

Jeremiah's Vanishing New York: The Strand bookstore needs your help -- and for reasons that will seem pretty counterintuitive 

The New York Times: Trump celebrates truce in self-created China trade war, but little has changed

Greg in Hollywood: Pietro Boselli is still the cutest


Hot Cat of the Day: You'd be surprised how finicky cats can be about their water.

Thursday, June 21, 2018

Book Shelf: Guy Branum, Jim Hart, David Sedaris and Eric Poole Are Your Summer Reads


'Tis the season for lying on the beach reading -- so here are four (and a half) book suggestions to help you achieve your golden tan.



Have been a fan of Guy's since his days on the "Chelsea Lately" roundtable. These days I enjoy his periodic essays and Twitter feed -- and can't wait to see if his memoir addresses his rumored fallout with Ms. Handler over her relationship with raging homophobe 50 Cent. (They've clearly dissed and made up!)

Description:
From a young age, Guy Branum always felt as if he were on the outside looking in. Self-taught, introspective, and from a stiflingly boring farm town, he couldn’t relate to his neighbors. While other boys played outside, he stayed indoors reading Greek mythology. And being gay and overweight, he got used to diminishing himself. But little by little, he started learning from all the sad, strange, lonely outcasts in history who had come before him, and he started to feel hope. In this collection of personal essays, Guy talks about finding a sense of belonging at Berkeley -- and stirring up controversy in a newspaper column that led to a run‑in with the Secret Service. He recounts the pitfalls of being typecast as the “Sassy Gay Friend,” and how, after taking a wrong turn in life (i.e. law school), he found stand‑up comedy and artistic freedom. He analyzes society’s calculated deprivation of personhood from fat people, and how, though it’s taken him a while to accept who he is, he has learned that with a little patience and a lot of humor, self-acceptance is possible. Written with Guy’s characteristic blend of wit, guile, and rumination, "My Life as a Goddess" is an unforgettable and deeply moving book by one of today’s most endearing and galvanizing voices in comedy.


I'm three chapters into this memoir by Carly Simon's follow-up single to James Taylor -- and I must say that if I'm this captivated even before getting to the part where he realizes he's gay and begins "partying and playing," you know it's a must-read.

Description:
"Lucky Jim" is Jim Hart’s memoir, the story of how he survived a violent childhood home, found incredible words inside him, created a love that was both so right and so wrong, and finally found the strength to be his true self. Jim is a master at building relationships. Charming, funny, and a great listener with a guru’s insight, his success in life and business was based on his ability to connect with others, from people recovering in 12-step groups in Upstate New York to those living in the rarified air of Martha’s Vineyard. But after 20+ years sober, one slip-up triggered an active addiction that threatened his relationships with his then-wife, singer-songwriter Carly Simon, his recovery friends, his severely disabled son, and even with himself as he began to confront his sexuality.


Yes, I'm just another gay devotee of Amy Sedaris's brother. But if his latest examines "the bonds of siblings, the trials and comforts of domesticity, the general confusion of the world, his family’s extremely weird sense of humor and his troubled sister's suicide" -- as promised -- then I can't wait to dig in.

Description:
If you've ever laughed your way through David Sedaris's cheerfully misanthropic stories, you might think you know what you're getting with "Calypso." You'd be wrong. When he buys a beach house on the Carolina coast, Sedaris envisions long, relaxing vacations spent playing board games and lounging in the sun with those he loves most. And life at the Sea Section, as he names the vacation home, is exactly as idyllic as he imagined, except for one tiny, vexing realization: it's impossible to take a vacation from yourself. With "Calypso," Sedaris sets his formidable powers of observation toward middle age and mortality. Make no mistake: these stories are very, very funny--it's a book that can make you laugh 'til you snort, the way only family can. Sedaris's powers of observation have never been sharper, and his ability to shock readers into laughter unparalleled. But much of the comedy here is born out of that vertiginous moment when your own body betrays you and you realize that the story of your life is made up of more past than future. This is beach reading for people who detest beaches, required reading for those who loathe small talk and love a good tumor joke. "Calypso" is simultaneously Sedaris's darkest and warmest book yet--and it just might be his very best.


Eric Poole's debut memoir, "Where's My Wand?," was truly one of the funniest books I've ever read. (His mother gives Molly a run for her money!) That's reason enough to be excited about his followup:

Description:
In 1977, Eric Poole is a talented high school trumpet player with one working ear, the height-to-weight ratio of a hat rack, a series of annoyingly handsome bullies, and a mother irrationally devoted to Lemon Pledge. But who he wants to be is a star…ANY star. With equal parts imagination, flair, and delusion, Eric proceeds to emulate a series of his favorite celebrities, like Barry Manilow, Halston, Tommy Tune, and Shirley MacLaine, in an effort to become the man he’s meant to be -- that is, anyone but himself. As he moves through his late teens and early twenties in suburban St. Louis, he casts about for an appropriate outlet for his talents. Will he be a trumpet soloist? A triple-threat actor/singer/dancer? A fashion designer in gritty New York City? Striving to become the son who can finally make his parents proud, Eric begins to suspect that discovering his personal and creative identities can only be accomplished by admitting who he really is. Picking up at the end of his first acclaimed memoir, "Where’s My Wand?," Poole’s journey from self-delusion to acceptance is simultaneously hysterical, heartfelt, and inspiring.



And as always, please consider reading my beach-friendly book of essays. And if you already had, a quick review on Amazon would be much-appreciated!

Description:
In the summer of ’77, while other boys in the Midwest were busy playing Little League and flocking to see "Star Wars," young Kenny Walsh was obsessed with Chris Evert and Woody Allen movies -- and daydreamed about moving to New York City. But when his family headed west from the suburbs of Detroit to Phoenix, it was the first in a series of events that set his Big Apple ambitions on the wrong course. In this funny and moving memoir, Walsh recounts an idiosyncratic childhood that included an attempt to track down a crazed serial killer, a First Amendment battle with his fourth-grade principal, running the local KKK (that’s Kenny’s Kid Kare) babysitting service -- and the mysterious disappearance of his father. Post-college jobs took him to Hollywood and Washington, D.C. -- where trouble followed (porn stars, celebrity doppelgängers, anxiety disorders) -- yet he still didn’t feel at home. Walsh finally arrived in Manhattan the week of his thirty-first birthday … but was tomorrow as wonderful as he dreamed it would be?

Thursday, May 24, 2018

Remains of the Day (05/24)


The New York Times: So much to love about this interview with David Sedaris, whose upcoming book will cover the bonds of siblings, the trials and comforts of domesticity, the general confusion of the world, his family’s extremely weird sense of humor and his troubled sister's suicide

The Daily News: Harvey Weinstein set to turn himself in on sex crime charges in New York

UnPresidented (podcast): Sarah Kendzior on how the media enables the Trump kleptocracy

Daily Intel: Self-proclaimed world's best deal-maker made to look like a fool by North Korea -- and now it sounds like he's itching for war

Towleroad: Gay man in ICU after being brutally beaten, burned, left in Amtrak rail yard in what family suspects is a hate crime

BosGuy: This rugby photo the sexiest thing you'll see all month


Boy Culture: In the wake of new allegations about Jeffrey Tambor and now Morgan Freeman, is there any way to acknowledge wrongdoing without completely rejecting a person's overall life and work?

JoeMyGod: Crazy Donald says maybe kneeling football players "shouldn't be in this country"

The Gay Almanac: Today in 1976, "Tales of the City" debuted in the San Francisco Chronicle

Greg in Hollywood: Watch former co-stars Hugh Grant and James Wilby talk about the gay love story "Maurice"

The Randy Report: Season 2 of "Queer Eye" set to premiere June 15 on Netflix

Deep Dish: This couldn't wait for Ass Wednesday


Dlisted: Will Arnett's new film has cut two scenes that may send the wrong message about molestation to kids

Minneapolis Star: She won him and wed him at the Mall of America nearly 20 years ago -- and he died Sunday

OMG Blog: Benedict Cumberbatch's ass stars in "Patrick Melrose"

Back2Stonewall: Democrats introduce bill to amend so-called Religious Freedom Restoration Act to protect LGBT Americans



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Hot Cat of the Day: Nothing better than a nap with your best friend.

Monday, December 26, 2016

'The Santaland Diaires' Comes to Detroit


To my Detroit readers: Be sure to go see my friend Craig Bentley in David Sedaris' hilarious "Santaland Diaires" at the Tipping Point Theatre. Ticket info HERE.


Longtime readers may recall that a young queen was HOT FOR TEACHER.

Friday, October 14, 2016

A Phone Call With David Sedaris


Fun interview to preview David Sedaris' appearance in Frederick, Md., tomorrow night. If you know a good abortion doula be sure to let him know. Read HERE.



EVENT DETAILS

An Evening with David Sedaris

When: 8 p.m., Oct. 15

Where: Weinberg Center for the Arts, 20 W. Patrick St., Frederick.

Cost: Between $30 and $40, with a $5 discount for seniors (Ages 62+), students, children, military, Frederick Arts Council members, City of Frederick employees

Info HERE.

Monday, October 21, 2013

A Death in the Sedaris Family


A one-tissue minimum in today's New Yorker as funnyman David Sedaris reveals what many of us had suspected: Sister Tiffany committed suicide. Read HERE.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Company Men


A little underwhelmed by David Sedaris' latest collection of essays? Fear not. He's already started a new one, with a sweet new essay in this week's New Yorker, about his sisters coming to visit in England.
Before we pick up our guests, I remind Hugh that, for the duration of their visit, he and I will be playing the role of a perfect couple …
Read HERE.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Summer Reading: Dan Savage, David Rakoff, Bill Clegg and More


While I don't have any specific beach plans yet -- Montauk two weekends ago was a rain-drenched disaster, and my next vacation is to my birthplace, my first time in the Motor City in about eight years -- but I do have my summer reading list up and running. I'll show you mine if you show me yours, in the comments.


No one is better suited for the fits and starts of summer reading than David Sedaris. His latest, "Let's Explore Diabetes With Owls," is enjoyable enough, although he's more serious and less funny than in the past. The sentimental story, dealing with his childhood realization that he was gay, was a nice change of pace. But some of the political and U.K. stuff left me kind of cold. Easily my least-favorite book of his, although that's still not the biggest put-down given where I was starting from. Get HERE. 


If you're looking for a quickie, might I recommend "Fun as Hell," my friend and former New York Times colleague Luke Kummer's Kindle Singles debut:
A down-on-his-luck reporter sets out to write about a military training facility that has invited tourists to experience war firsthand. But after his girlfriend decides to join him on this madcap daytrip he is forced to unravel a bigger story. This uniquely told narrative—call it truly strange—weaves a fast-paced, humorous and gripping account together with the author’s recollections of writing for newspapers in New York, the Middle East and Washington, falling in love and traveling to places touched by violence. "Fun as Hell" is a captivating ride with sharp turns. What it reveals about war, the media, relationships and our times will shake readers and leave them hungering for more.
Luke deftly weaves a journalistic outing with tales of his floundering relationship and career uncertainities in this fun and frenetic mini-memoir. Download HERE.


I'm a big fan of Dan Savage, dating back to when I worked at PR Newswire in the '90s and one of my editors used to save the most salacious letters from Savage Love to share with me. Still, I've never read any of his books, despite hearing great things about them --  most notably "The Kid: What Happened After My Boyfriend and I Decided to Go Get Pregnant" -- and even buying a copy of "It Gets Better." (I just used that one to get a pic-with Dan and his hubby, Terry.) That all ends with "American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love and Politics," which I got a review copy of and started the other night. Get HERE.


This one's gonna be bittersweet. The hilarious David Rakoff died last year after finishing his first novel(la), "Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish," a rhythmic, rhyming tale that "captures the lives of several generations of Americans, from a hobo riding the rails during the Great Depression to a man coping with AIDS in 1980s San Francisco."  David shared this preview with me while he was writing: 
Here's a filthy couplet from the Clifford chapters (b. in the 1930's, first cousin to Helen, from the Christmas poem), He loves to draw, gay, moves to SF in the Summer of Love, becomes a minor underground success for his underground comic strip, "The Adventures of Cap'n Cocksure and his sidekick, Throbbin,'" dies of AIDS in 1984): "O, it's true what the song says, my heart's San Francisco's! (Suck on this, dear, while I work out where this goes...)" 
I'm thrilled to have one more work from him -- sure hope there's an audio version, his reading is the best -- but I can't help but wish it were another collection of personal essays, of which there were far too few. Perhaps this was a deliberate distraction when his prognosis turned dire, and writing about himself was no longer something he wanted to do. Like I said, bittersweet. Pre-order HERE.


"Dreadful: The Short Life and Gay Times of John Horne Burns" arrived on my doorstep yesterday, David Margolick's rather substantial biography of the late gay novelist:
American John Horne Burns (1916–1953) led a brief and controversial life, and as a writer, transformed many of his darkest experiences into literature. Burns was born in Massachusetts, graduated from Andover and Harvard, and went on to teach English at the Loomis School, a boarding school for boys in Windsor, Connecticut. During World War II, he was stationed in Africa and Italy, and worked mainly in military intelligence. His first novel, "The Gallery" (1947), based on his wartime experiences, is a critically acclaimed novel and one of the first to unflinchingly depict gay life in the military. "The Gallery" sold half a million copies upon publication, but never again would Burns receive that kind of critical or popular attention. 
 Get HERE.


I loved Bill Clegg's sex-and-drugs memoir, "Portrait of Addict as a Young Man," but never got around to reading the follow-up. His relapse memoir, "Ninety Days," is out in paperback, so I picked it up at Three Lives the other day. Get HERE.


 Heard about "Confessions of a Fairy's Daughter" in Out magazine:
When Alison Wearing was 12, her father came out as gay. Nearly unheard of in 1970s small-town Canada, the revelation changed the course of her and her father’s lives, both captured in Wearing’s funny and moving memoir.
I'm in! Get HERE.


And finally, Michael Menzies' "Deeply Superficial: Noel Coward, Marlene Dietrich, and Me" sounds like a hoot:
In this dazzling memoir that also serves as a dual biography of stage and film legends Noël Coward and Marlene Dietrich, film and music executive Michael Menzies chronicles in hilarious detail his life-long obsession with the theater in general and these two international superstars in particular. At age 12, Menzies discovered the autobiography of actor/writer/composer Noël Coward and was consumed by it. Although still only a youth, Menzies identified hugely with Coward—so much so that he came to believe that he must be the star’s love child. But with whom? In a burst of inspiration Menzies worked out that his mother could only be Marlene Dietrich. The author then decides that as soon as he can he will voyage around the world to confront Coward and Dietrich in person and announce himself as their son. Yet even after he finally abandons his plan, Menzies continues his search for them—and their pasts—spending the rest of his life following in their footsteps, traveling to London, Paris, New York, Berlin, Switzerland, and Jamaica. 
Get HERE.