Thursday, November 12, 2026

Remains of the Day (11/12)








Brian Ferrari: A look back at punk icon and longtime LGBTQ ally Henry Rollins's revealing appearances in gay magazine "In Touch" between 1983 and 1985












Speedo Sunday: Thiago in lime green



On the Rag, Vol. 933

 

In this week's rag 'n' mag roundup: Julia Louis-Dreyfus's hot son makes a splash, Ramiro Lozano strips down, Ezra Moreland turns heads, Morgan Spector brings the daddy appeal and more BELOW.

Wednesday, November 11, 2026

Remains of the Day (11/11)





Wrestle Wednesday: Yearning in yellow



Single-Issue Fixation: It's great to be passionate about something you believe in. But if you think THIS, THIS or THIS are in any way sane behavior, you've also lost your f**king mind / See also: Dutch Prime Minister Rob Jetten puts a mezuzah on his own front door in solidarity with Jewish families who have stopped displaying the religious symbol for fear of antisemitic attacks 










Hot Cat of the Day: Guess which 12-year-old cutie pie got a clean bill of health this week at the vet, where he was really upset about going? 


Transfixed: Here's your periodic reminder that this is the "transphobic" tweet that got J.K. Rowling -- who had spent years championing LGBTQ rights and inclusivity, which you might think would have earned her some goodwill -- labeled Trans Enemy Number One: defending a woman who lost her job over her materialist view of human biology. Sadly, Rowling is one of those thin-skinned egomaniacs who then doubled and tripled down in increasingly uncharitable ways. But if you'd been on the receiving end of such unwarranted vitriol, there's no telling how you might have reacted -- especially knowing that all of it was coming from within your own tribe. How I wish my community could get over its single-issue fixation and learn to pick its battles, because god knows there are plenty of actual enemies out there.


Sí, Seniority: We elected our senators and representatives. Now they get to choose their leadership -- that's how the system works. If you're determined to challenge the status quo, here's an idea: Don't waste the next two years squabbling over who's in charge of legislation that's only going to get vetoed anyway. Focus instead on winning back the White House, when control of House and Senate leadership would really matter. Until then, all this infighting is doing is suffocating the joy and momentum we've waited so long to achieve. (Please let me be happy for five minutes.) 

Tuesday, November 10, 2026

Tennis Tuesday


Shockingly, he's not even AI. Get to the front of this BELOW.

Monday, November 09, 2026

The Webb of Life


Had a wonderful time seeing legendary songwriter Jimmy Webb at City Winery with my friends David, Lynn and Lucy.

Webb, who is now 80 but still has something of a boyish look about him, treated us to a set that included "Galveston," "Up, Up and Away," "The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress," "All I Know," "Didn't We," "By the Time I Get to Phoenix," "MacArthur Park" and, of course, the incomparable "Wichita Lineman." (I still maintain that Maria McKee did the definitive version!)


He also performed several newer and lesser-known songs, with the awfully handsome singer-songwriter Pete Mancini joining him for part of the show, following an entertaining opening set.

The highlight of the evening for me wound up being the closing number, "Adios," which I fell ion love with in college when Linda Ronstadt included it on her smash album "Cry Like a Rainstorm, Howl Like the Wind" (1989).


In addition to being one of the finest songwriters of this generation, Webb is an incredible storyteller, somehow managing to humble-brag and be self-deprecating at the same time. 

Our table had the added bonus of hearing some behind-the-scenes gossip from David, who edited Webb's book "Tunesmith: Inside the Art of Songwriting" some 30 years ago and had plenty of fun memories about the process.


My only disappointment was that he didn't perform anything from what I consider his finest work: the songs he wrote for Art Garfunkel's 1977 album "Watermark," including "Crying in My Sleep," "Saturday Suit," "Paper Chase" and "Shine It on Me," the last of which contains perhaps the most codependent romantic lyrics of all time:
I remember times when you'd touch me 
And you'd, you'd freeze my spine 
We were looking in the mirror at the time 
I got confused and thought your eyes were mine
But that's a minor complaint about an evening spent in the company of such a remarkable talent. (In fairness, he did perform the biggest hit he wrote for Art, the aforementioned “All I Know.”)


As it happens, I've just started reading a biography of the '80s band Prefab Sprout, and wouldn't you know it, there's an entire chapter devoted to Webb's influence on frontman Paddy McAloon. 

Apparently, McAloon first heard "Wichita Lineman" while running past a pub as a schoolboy, an experience he later described as something akin to a chemical shift. 

It's fascinating to think about the connection between two songwriters whose work I've loved for so long -- and even more fascinating that the one born in 1946 is the one still performing live! 


How about that Little Island? 

Sunday, November 08, 2026

Weekend Tennis Roundup


Carlos Alcaraz conquers Paris, Quentin Halys and Pierre-Hugues Herbert delight the home crowd, Jessica Pegula and Mirra Andreeva make peace, plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post BELOW.