Wednesday, October 07, 2026

Remains of the Day (10/07)


















Hot Cat of the Day: A change of seasons





Someone really needs to conduct research on how a single topic can overtake a person's entire life and personality, which also makes me think of Messing's counterparts on the other side -- I'm looking at you, #FreePalestine loons -- who act as though the story began in 1948. You can condemn the suffering and displacement of Palestinians without acting as though Israel was created in a vacuum. Its founding came after centuries of antisemitic persecution, expulsions and pogroms across Europe and elsewhere, culminating in the Holocaust, when six million Jews were murdered and much of the world had proved unwilling to protect them -- or even, in many cases, to give those fleeing persecution somewhere to go. None of that erases what happened to Palestinians -- or what is happening to them now. But neither does Palestinian suffering erase the history that made the idea of a Jewish homeland seem not merely desirable to many Jews, but a matter of survival. Which is also why chanting "From the river to the sea" isn't the uncomplicated call for liberation some people seem to pretend it is: no matter what the speaker intends by it, many of us hear a demand for a future in which the Jewish state no longer exists.

My husband made a good analogy at dinner last night: the Crusades are now largely remembered as a bunch of fanatical Christians invading Muslim lands and slaughtering people in the name of religion. And plenty of that happened. It's a version of history that also fits rather neatly with the kiddies' fondness for bashing "Christians" writ large. But the Crusades didn't spring from nowhere, either. They came after centuries of conflict between Christian and Muslim powers, including Muslim conquest of formerly Christian lands and a long struggle over Jerusalem and the Holy Land. None of that excuses the slaughter and brutality of the Crusades. Still, starting the clock at 1095 strips away everything that led to 1095 -- just as starting the Israeli-Palestinian story in 1948 strips away everything that led to 1948.

My point being that once you become so consumed by a cause that you can no longer see its history, complexity or the humanity of the people on the other side, you've lost all perspective -- like Messing and every Queer for Palestine on my social media feeds.

#My9Albums

 

The instructions say: "Pick the 9 albums that made you. Search more than two million albums, put your nine in order, and share the poster," and so I did. Obviously, it's impossible to narrow it down to nine -- the first five Blondie albums all deserve to be on here -- and it was only after I'd finished that I realized I'd completely forgotten about "Beauty and the Beat" by the Go-Go's, although I don't see where I'd swap it in. But like most time-wasting social-media trends, it's fun. Tell me yours in the comments -- or make and share your own HERE.

Tuesday, October 06, 2026

Weekend Tennis Roundup


Titles for Novak Djokovic and Carlos Alcaraz. Full report plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post BELOW.

Purrfectly Served

 

Tennis Tuesday

 

ScottRileyXX swears he knows "SO much" about the sport. Judge for yourself BELOW.

Monday, October 05, 2026

Remains of the Day (10/05)

















Hot Cat of the Day: Josie and the pussy scraps