Friday, October 24, 2025
Remains of the Day (10/24)
Gr8er Days: 100 most memorable "Golden Girls" guest spots as the show turns 40, including the time Mr. Grant's ex wife (Edie) caught up with the Happy Homemaker(!)
Weekend Fling: When Saturday 'Stache met Speedo Sunday
Provincetown Magazine: The hilarious Mike Albo has a new audio memoir: "Hologram Boyfriends: Sex, Love, and Overconnection" ... available to pre-order HERE
Washington Blade: Erasure laws are the new frontline of anti-LGBTQ hate
California Luxury: Phyllis Lindstrom slept here, sorta
Instinct: When does a twink become a twunk?
Psychology Today: Now, more than ever, LGBTQ people need community
Attitude: David Geffen’s estranged hooker husband drops lawsuit -- but now he's claiming the billionaire mogul is hiding his finances
Hot Cat of the Day: Gregory Nalbone is a proud cat dad!
Thursday, October 23, 2025
On the Rag, Vol. 880
This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Jayson Glick, DJ Matt, Kevin Davis, Jeremy Allen White, Bram van Adrichem, fall grooms and much more BELOW.
Another Case of Neko
After that DEBACLE last fall in Tarrytown, we gave Neko Case another "chance" Wednesday night at the Beacon Theater -- and she definitely didn't disappoint.
Leaning heavily into her wonderful "Neon Grey Midnight Green" album -- her first release since 2018 -- Neko's voice and mood were in top gear throughout the evening, as she zig-zagged through a set that also included a healthy dose of material from "Fox Confessor Brings the Flood," "Middle Cyclone" and "Blacklisted." (As it would happen, "Hell-On," which is the first solo album of hers I really got into, was ignored.)
I've probably said this before, but it's worth repeating: Debbie Harry, Chrissie Hynde and Carly Simon are just lucky I didn't discover the New Pornographers chanteuse until the 2000s, because I have to figure the only reason she's not my No. 1 -- that voice! those lyrics! that phrasing! how does she come up with this stuff???? -- is because there's just no way to "catch up" with favorites who have been embedded in your DNA since your childhood. Even after playing Neko's solo music more or less nonstop the past year I still only recognized a fraction of what she played last night and only a couple times did I get the chills they way I do during an entire set of one of my legacy artists. (But when I did get them ... "Magpie to the Morning" ... swoon!)
In no way does this diminish how much I appreciate her. In fact, that I hold her in such high regard after a relatively short period, or have adopted her at all, is probably the highest compliment someone like me -- who still regularly listens to albums from 1978 on repeat -- could give.
Great night. Setlist below.
Setlist:
“Bracing for Sunday,” “People Got a Lotta Nerve,” “Louise,” “Deep Red Bells,” “This Tornado Loves You,” “Little Gears,” “Baby, I'm Not (A Werewolf),” “Ragtime,” “Magpie to the Morning,” “I'm an Animal,” “Destination,” “Lady Pilot,” “Oh, Shadowless,” “That Teenage Feeling,” “Rusty Mountain,” “Match-Lit,” “Neon Grey Midnight Green,” “Tomboy Gold,” “Wreck,” “Star Witness,” Encore: “I Wish I Was the Moon,” “Hold On, Hold On,” “At Last.”
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Remains of the Day (10/22)
Wrestle Wednesday: When it's laundry day and your singlet is all that's clean
Washington Blade: On the ground with Ukraine’s LGBTQ war heroes
Attitude: "Heartstopper"-inspired book features 50 touching stories of the franchise’s community impact
David Bumgardner: Why the Anglican schism is about more than women and LGBTQ issues
Hot Cat of the Day: As if I didn't idolize Paul Weller enough!
Tuesday, October 21, 2025
Over the Weekend
Spent the weekend not joining a cult at the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies up in Rhineback, where we visited my sister-in-law who took a seasonal job there to get away from it all. Gorgeous weather and perfect company made for a winning combination. xo
My brother Bill's second book!
Monday, October 20, 2025
Remains of the Day (10/20)
Boystack: A review of 'Kiss of the Spider Woman,' a movie with heart, even if it doesn't stick the landing
Greg in Hollywood: All about Diane Keaton, the singer -- who almost worked on an album with the great Jules Shear
Hot Cat of the Day: More like Malik Delgato
NewFest: "Boots" wants you for a new recruit
Weekend Tennis Roundup
Titles for Auger-Aliassime, Medvedev, Ruud, Rybakina and Fernandez; Musetti's leaked noodle rears its lovely head; plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post BELOW.
Friday, October 17, 2025
Remains of the Day (10/17)
Saturday 'Stache: When the cop sitting across from you is breaking subway etiquette by manspreading in a pair of city-issued short shorts
Windy City Times: Holly Woodlawn biography chronicles the highs and lows of Warhol-style superstardom
Gayety: Alex and Henry’s love story continues with "Red, White & Royal Wedding"; Jamie Babbit to direct
Cincinnati Enquirer: Ohio pastor who protested LGBTQ book at school fair accused of child rape, sexual battery (natch)
CBS News: Mental health among LGBTQ youth is worsening, report finds (shocker)
Hot Cat of the Day: When you're sleepy but you get the job done anyway
RIP: Inside the last moments of Kiss guitarist Ace Frehley, whose cover of "New York Groove" was pretty much the only thing I ever had use for from that lot. (Sorry, my peer group!)
Queers Aplenty: The Out100 for 2025 is here, including my pal Greg Cope White
Thursday, October 16, 2025
On the Rag, Vol. 879
This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Josh O'Connor, Michael Musto, Charlie Hunnam, 6-foot-3 Malik Delgaty, Miles Heizer, Niecy Nash and more BELOW
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
Remains of the Day (10/15)
People: Katy Perry has a type. But will former Prime Minister Justin Trudeau show us what he's working with the way ex Orlando Bloom did in all his uncut glory?
The Caftan Chronicles: Angel-face "Bad Boy" Johnny Hazzard dominated 2000s porn. But Frankie Valenti, his real-life counterpart now owns a creamery.
NYT: Woody Allen remembers the "magical" Diane Keaton / see which of the beloved actress's films are returning to theaters HERE.
Arizona Republic: Former bar owner recounts rich history of lesbian bars in Phoenix
Wrestle Wednesday: Sam Vass shows that putting your singlet on can be hotter than taking it off
Us Weekly: Tyler Perry says his assault accuser Derek Dixon "needs help." (Isn't that what got Madea into this fix?)
Queerty: This forgotten Diane Keaton TV movie had gay drama, messy motherhood and Chris Pine in drag
NBC News: I was incredulous that a young woman in Philadelphia could take her own life by repeatedly stabbing herself. But after watching "Death in Apartment 603: What Happened to Ellen Greenberg?," I have to admit that I agree with the medical examiner that she indeed did. Yikes.
Attitude: Turkish government drafts anti-LGBTQ+ laws threatening prison for trans people and same-sex couples
PinkNews: YouTube comedians Dan and Phil speak out for first time since confirming 16-year relationship
Ruben Carbajal: Despite the obituaries, MTV is not shutting down. My pitch: a Pluto channel of MTV replaying itself chronologically.
Boystack: Trans icon Miss Major has died at 78
Hot Cat of the Day: I like this critter's style
"Boys Club": This web series created by Nico Carney and the hilarious Conor Janda is unofficially my new favorite thing to watch!
Queer Comedy Fest: LGBTLOL with Judy Gold
Tuesday, October 14, 2025
Tennis Tuesday: Felix Mischker
So, in addition to looking like this, London-born Felix Mischker does some pretty good impressions of fellow tennis players.
See if you can figure out who this is BELOW.
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