I've been meaning to mention that the early '90s gem "Dream On" is now streaming on the Roku Channel -- God it's good! -- and now I'm remembering to do so with the sad news of the
passing of the inimitable Teri Garr, who stars in a memorable arch at the beginning of the third season of the HBO series. Rest in peace, funny lady. I will love you forever in "The Conversation," "Oh, God!," "The Bob Newhart Show," "One From the Heart," "Tootsie," "After Hours" and so on. And I'll think of you each time I use my
plaster of Paris bagel and cream cheese paperweight. xo
"Teri Garr’s many appearances on 'Late Night' gave it a cache and importance not possible without her. She was a first class actor and comedian and a lovely human being. A bright star and a real friend to the show. I was lucky to know her. She elevated all, and I’m sad she is gone."
I had the honor of directing
Teri Garr’s last feature film. When I first went to meet her, she walked up to me in a restaurant and said “I’m looking for Scott Prendergast?” I was so stunned to be standing in front of her – to be hearing my favorite actress say my actual name – that I was unable to form a coherent reply.
I had a small but pivotal role for her in my tiny indie movie (KABLUEY). She would play Suze, a woman mysteriously terrorized by a blue mascot costume. The casting made sense to me, because Teri Garr often played women dropped into “zany” situations: a woman whose husband saw God (OH GOD), a woman whose husband saw aliens (CLOSE ENCOUNTERS), a woman whose boyfriend dressed as a woman to get work (TOOTSIE), a woman whose boyfriend was attempting to resurrect the dead (YOUNG FRANKENSTEIN), a career woman watching her husband unravel at home (MR. MOM).
In all these films, she stands in for the audience, witnessing strange behavior and reacting like we would – with disbelief, with concern, with flummoxed rage. Her characters were the everywoman, the perfect All-American Mom, your favorite off-beat girlfriend. A reporter once said about her, “She wasn’t quite the girl-next-door, she was more like the girl-next-door to the girl-next-door.” Something unusual happened to that girl, to all her characters, and she had to muddle through, to put up with it, had to smile and play along. She had a way of giving a wry and skeptical look to insane behavior, a look that said “Well…OK.”
Tonight, on a loop, I'll watch her shriek reaction to Dustin Hoffman "telling her the truth" in TOOTSIE, and her masterpiece "you idiot" look to Randy Quaid in OUT COLD -- a singularly perfect comic moment, singled out by Pauline Kael in a review that propelled college-age-me down to a theater on St. Marks Place in New York to see the film. I went to see every Teri Garr movie. I always stayed up to see her on Letterman. Hearing her name in random conversations throughout my life I would feel a swell of love and pride, like someone had mentioned my hometown.
She was Teri Garr. She was our Teri Garr. And we will always love, cherish and remember Teri Garr.
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