Showing posts with label miss guy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label miss guy. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Rediscovering 'The Drag Queens of New York' on the Bowery


Damian and I spent Saturday afternoon on the Bowery at HA/HA taking in "Then & Now," a gallery tour, discussion and video screening marking the 30th anniversary of "The Drag Queens of New York."

Julian Fleisher, who wrote the seminal book about the '90s NYC drag scene, guided the event and introduced the speakers, bringing the kind of insider affection that could only come from someone who lived and loved this history in real time.


This crowd was no drag 

As he ushered us from room to room, Julian reminisced about the interviews he conducted with the reigning queens of the day -- all of which were prefaced with lengthy questionnaires ("Who did I think I was?") -- and steered us toward the eclectic collection of ephemera on display throughout (including the queens' handwritten responses) from the passion project that still clearly means a lot to him: First and foremost, Julian explained, he "was a fan," who used the project as an excuse to "hang out with people I admired."


'The Last Drag Supper,' as seen in Out magazine (photo by Joshua Kessler)

He then brought to the stage drag historian Joe E. Jeffreys, who gave a smart, engaging overview of the cultural landscape that shaped Fleisher’s book, with shoutouts to predecessors such as Carlton E. Winford's "Femme Mimics: A Pictorial Record of Female Impersonation" and Avery Willard's "Female Impersonation." His context underscored just how prescient the work was -- drag is strangely mainstream in a lot of ways now -- but also how much more there was to the art form beyond the late 20th century NYC time capsule Fleisher so brilliantly documented. 


He was followed by the ever-hilarious, delightfully self-effacing Miss Guy, who shared that he never actually considered himself a drag queen -- androgynous is more like it -- but was offered a chance to be on stage so ran with it as a means to an end to kickstart his music ambitions. When forced to pick a drag moniker, he says he opted to keep his given name -- dolled up with a femme honorific -- so that decades later people wouldn't be screaming "Hey, Melinda" from across the room(!). 

Guy then played a rarely seen 1995 interview with former go-go boy Mark Allen for the downtown cable show "Party Talk." The segment follows the two of them romping around Guy's memorabilia-packed apartment, eating cereal, getting prank calls and talking about “queer” rock 'n' roll in the early days of the Toilet Boys, Miss Guy's glamtastic band whom I saw open for Blondie back in '99. (There’s even early performance footage from Squeezebox, Guy's notorious party night at the erstwhile Don Hill's.)

 
Guy mentioned he still lives in the same place 30 years later, and that the clip contains the only footage of his late kitty, giving the moment an unexpectedly touching edge. Guy then screened additional videos from his career (Wigstock, Lollapalooza ‘95) -- providing a momentary mini–Miss Guy retrospective -- but adorably seemed to again shy away from the attention as he half-pleaded with the audio/visual guy to cut them short: "Events like this remind me how much I miss ... social distancing," he quipped.

As for Mark, it was so nice seeing him and meeting his handsome boyfriend, Will McLeod, whom I know from Instagram. Mark shocked me by revealing he hadn't been in the city in almost two years(!) -- and it was his first time with Will -- which is hard to imagine for a guy whose East Village apartment used to be live-streamed for the world to watch before that was even a thing.


If you haven’t stopped by yet, the full exhibition "The Drag Queens of New York" is on display at Howl! Happening through Nov. 30. It’s a lovingly assembled slice of LGBTQ New York history -- absolutely worth catching before it’s gone.




The silver lamé pants did things to me ...


Miss Guy's the limit!


The Watergate tapes have nothing on these 


And now a word from our author ...


With Miss Guy


Julian Fleisher, Miss Guy and Mark Allen


Putting the meat in a Will and Mark sandwich 

Tuesday, February 21, 2023

When Joan Rivers Was a 'Dick' to Some NYC Gender Benders


While I'm sure Joan Rivers wouldn't be receiving any GLAAD Media Awards in 2023 for asking men who perform as women if they still have their penises, I think it's easy to forget how subversive her syndicated daytime(!) talk show was at times back in the day. From 1989 to 1993, Mrs. Rosenberg featured numerous LGBT notables, everyone from Michael Alig, his Club Kid friends and Martina Navratilova to Lily Tomlin, Tab Hunter and the children of Billy Tipton.


Perhaps the finest moment was when she did a show about "Men Who Became Superstars as Women," featuring a fashion show with gender benders Joey Arias, Miss Guy and Paris emceed by Lady Bunny, as well as performances by Lypsinka and RuPaul and a hilarious interview with Holly Woodlawn, there promoting her memoir, "A Low Life in High Heels." 


Although it was a hoot hearing Holly discuss how Madonna wanted to adapt her book into a film -- and play fellow Warhol trans-Superstar Candy Darling -- the high point of it all had to be when Miss Guy (of Toilet Boys fame) responded to Joan's unseemly question by asking her if she has hers. (Michael Musto wrote it up, above.)


Joan was adorable throughout the show and truly seemed to have affection for her guests. But that moment, the genesis of which Miss Guy explains above, was a rare time that even Joan wasn't sure what had just slapped her in the face!

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Song of the Day: 'God Save New York' by Miss Guy (Featuring Debbie Harry)


Miss Guy channels his inner-Ramone brother on this new track, with a little help from Debbie Harry. Free download available HERE.

Wednesday, March 06, 2013

Song of the Day: 'Magic' by Miss Guy


  A breath of fresh air from the Toilet Boys singer. Available on iTunes HERE.



Thursday, November 15, 2012

Song of the Day: 'Take It Off' by Miss Guy


Fell for Miss Guy when I saw the Toilet Boys open for Blondie at MSG Theatre back in '99. Here's his latest solo effort, from his new EP, "Dumb Blonde," now available HERE. The video reminds me a bit of "Sweet and Low," in the best possible way ...

Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Inner City Spillover

OK, who went?
   Back in the New York Groove

Someone stole Debbie's hat -- was that you, Scooter? According to G has a full report HERE.

Also, Miss Guy (of Toilet Boys and DJ-ing fame) debuted her sexy new video, "Dumb Blonde," from her debut solo effort, available now on iTunes HERE.

Many great looks, but the early David Sylvian is my fave. Good luck with the new EP, Guy!

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Page 1 Consider (04/10)

  • Smile! My friend Chantal didn't want me to post this photo of us that turned up on NickyDigital.com from the Moby thing at Hiro Ballroom last week. But I think it's way more candid and fun than any of ours, so too bad! (NickyDigital)


  • Dreaming Is Free: How I managed to miss Debbie Harry giving an award to John Waters and performing Ace Frehley's 1978 solo hit "New York Groove" at the NGLTF New York Leadership Awards in my own building is beyond me. Joe has all of the delicious details. (Joe.My.God.)

  • Blind Truth: On a related matter, at the same NGLTF event, New York's womanizing, pot-and-coke-lovin' new governor, David Paterson, announced that he would continue to push for full marriage equality for LGBT New Yorkers. (Advocate)

  • Motor City Trannies: I've gotta hand it to my old hometown. They can't do many things right, but Detroit has become the latest city to ban discrimination on the basis of gender identity. Its city council voted 8-1 to amend the city's nondiscrimination ordinance that already bars discrimination against lesbians and gays. (365Gay)

  • Absolut Size Queen: While the rest of the world was worked up into a lather over the Mexico ad for the randy vodka maker, I only had eyes for this one. (PRN)

  • Ultimate Gay-Straight Alliance: I always get nervous when non-tennis people interview the game's stars, but Oprah Winfrey did a great job with Chris Evert and Martina Navratilova on Tuesday's show about extraordinary friendships. The only way it could have been better is if they'd been given the full hour, which they so richly deserved! My pal Greg has a nice piece about the Chris-Martina phenomenon. (OutInHollywood)

  • Merry in Maryland: Legislation that would give domestic partners -- gay or straight (gasp!) -- medical and funeral decision-making rights has passed its final hurdle and is awaiting the signature of Gov. Martin O'Malley. (365Gay)

  • The Not Ready for Primetime Gayers: In Part 2 of AfterElton's special report on Gays in Primetime, they speak with the creators of some of today's most successful television shows including Greg Berlanti, Tim Kring, Bryan Fuller and others about why there aren't more gay characters on television. Their answers range from reluctant (and closeted actors) to nervous network executives to their own internalized homophobia. (Part 2 / Part 1)

  • Some Civics Lesson: A popular textbook used in government classes in U.S. high schools is under fire after a senior raised questions about the book's political biases. The student and his supporters say American Government, by conservatives James Wilson and John Dilulio, presents a skewed view of topics from global warming to separation of church and state to gay rights. The publisher now says it will review the book, as will the College Board, which oversees college-level Advanced Placement courses used in high schools. (AP)

  • The Gay Ceiling: A recent and first-ever forum of openly LGBT executives examined the corporate closet in today’s workplace, focusing on the lack of representation in top business roles as well as the importance of LGBT role models. Learn more at Out&Equal.org.

  • Whistling Diddy: Why don't you go to Zell! (PolitickerCA)
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