Friday, April 03, 2026

Flashback Friday

 

This photo memory sort of caught me off guard as I've pretty much had facial hair for the past three decades, dating back to when my ESL boyfriend snapped at me in 1996 during an unrelated fight that "You know I don't like goatee"! 

Um, I do now. (My first beard and first selfie might be HERE!)

But I'm thinking I must have shaved in order to "look presentable" as my American Airlines pilot friend's free companion for our trip to London and Ireland in 2000. If you're thinking that doesn't quite make sense -- your passport photo would have been taken weeks if not years beforehand -- I would point you to THIS POST, which details my leaving all of my belongings in a hackney carriage and later having to stand in line at the American Embassy to procure a replacement on the spot! 


As it would happen, the post also features a fun memory of my friend Larry Brickman, whose 20th death anniversary just passed. I marked the occasion by sending his partner, Chris, these photos I came upon while going through old files. 

Of all the things in my lifetime, his freak death still haunts me the most. God, I miss that guy. xo 

Remains of the Day (04/03)

 









Thursday, April 02, 2026

On the Rag, Vol. 901


This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Rusty Joiner, Enzo Marius, Andrew Scott, Zack Hilton, (the) Shah (of Britain), Lisa Kudrow and more BELOW.

Wednesday, April 01, 2026

Sign Language

 

Copy editors: Friend or faux? 

Remains of the Day (04/01)








The Advocate: Josh Sorbe, a Democratic spokesman from South Dakota who is gay, highlighted why bimbogate is getting attention: "The Bryon Noem story perfectly encapsulates these people's hypocrisy and insecurity. They ostracize any queer person in public, but love to queen out and do gay shit behind the scenes. Get well, and I'll even cheer on your bad drag after they're out of power."