Monday, October 23, 2023

Weekend Tennis Roundup


Titles for Shelton, Monfils and Bublik. Plus all the ATP beef that's fit to post BELOW.

Friday, October 20, 2023

Haunted Honeymoon

 

Sweet photo of my girl Gilda and Gene I'd never seen before popped up on Threads. Damian tried to enjoy our Halloween-friendly neighborhood earlier but nonstop drizzle spoiled the fun, so I guess we'll try again on Sunday when it's supposed to let up. 

On the Rag, Vol. 780

A weekly look at what's making news in the gay magazines:










Georgia Voice: Atlanta Pride memories






Male Model Trending: Football boy: Krzysiek




Thursday, October 19, 2023

Remains of the Day (10/19)

















Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Doctor! Doctor!


Was back in Chelsea for my annual physical today. Made me smile to see this poster in the waiting room, exactly a week after I returned from my honeymoon there! -- found out my doc dreamed of going to Mont-Saint-Michel since he was 10 and made it there at 65! Then I was immediately not smiling when I found out my doctor of about 20 years is going to be retiring in April. Actually, I should note that out of nowhere I asked him if he had given any thought to how much longer he was planning to work and he replied that he was just about to tell me what was going on with his practice, once I put my clothes back on and returned from the examining room to his office. 

"You're psychic!" he diagnosed me.

While I realize there are people who are undoubtedly tighter with their doctors -- I've been extremely fortunate to never have any major health issues so far -- I've always liked mine, so I found myself rather shaken by the news. (And when I inevitably do have issues, I sure would have liked to battle them with someone I trust.)

"We had a good run," he said, as he offered me a hug. 

It's a long story, but the short version is that his practice -- hurt badly by the pandemic -- is being assumed by NYU Langone Health, which apparently wants to expand its gay presence. When I said that I thought we were in a "post-gay" world now, my doctor replied that it wasn't so where there was money to be made. "PrEP, PrEP, PrEP," were his exact words, I believe.

A new gay physician is heading up the practice, which will be moving near the Moynihan Train Hall -- and my doctor suggested I give him a try. I may follow his advice. But if any gay New Yorkers have any recommendations for me -- preferably someone who is under 50 so this doesn't happen again -- please let me know. 

Tuesday, October 17, 2023

Remains of the Day (10/17)


Gimme Shelter: Speaking of the Upper West Side: Annie Leibovitz is selling her two-story co-op in the Brentmore, at 88 Central Park West. Side note: Hard to believe it was 20 years ago that I started working at the New York Times and joined the paper's LGBT group where we later protested the exclusion of Susan Sontag's relationship with Leibovitz in the writer's Dec. 28, 2004, obituary.













It's Either Sadness or Bookphoria: A review of Leslie Jones's new memoir





Hot Cat of the Day: Cutest "shopper" ever!