Monday, December 15, 2025

Parricide: Rob Reiner and Wife Michele Were Killed by Their Son


Got home from the SAGE Toys Party tonight to the horrific news that Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Reiner, had been murdered in their Brentwood estate, which immediately had me thinking it had to have been done by someone close to the couple. 

Moments later, People magazine exclusively reported that their very troubled son,  Nick Reiner, was responsible for the crime:
Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, were killed by their son, Nick, according to multiple sources who have spoken with family members. Police have not yet confirmed the account.

Police say Nick, 32, is alive and being questioned. No arrests have been made.

In a 2016 interview with People, Nick spoke about his years-long struggle with drug addiction, which began in his early teens and eventually left him living on the streets. He said he cycled in and out of rehab beginning around age 15, but as his addiction escalated, he drifted farther from home and spent significant stretches homeless in multiple states.

Nick told People that the chaotic period of addiction -- including nights and sometimes weeks sleeping outside -- later became the basis for the semi-autobiographical film "Being Charlie," which he co-wrote. 

“Now, I’ve been home for a really long time, and I’ve sort of gotten acclimated back to being in L.A. and being around my family," Nick told People at the time.
A heartbreaking end to a remarkable life.

Sunday, December 14, 2025

A Snowy Day in New York

 

Woke up to the first real snow I can remember in ages and immediately had to make the most of it!


Friday, December 12, 2025

Remains of the Day (12/12)

 

KJM: Another fantastic piece by Kevin Jack McEnroe, as he reflects on six years of sobriety. I wasn't sure why I've been drawn to his work but now I'm realizing it's a combination of reasons. I have always bristled at the mention of addiction -- somehow my brothers and I were supposed to "get over" having no father as little boys just because someone used the magic word -- yet I'm finding Kevin's writing about the topic to be revelatory and helpful, as well as entertaining. Note: It couldn't be any more obvious who his mother and father are in this photo from his recent wedding, and not just because they're the most famous faces. 

Dallas Voice: Arlington Pride 2026 canceled following City Council vote to scrap LGBTQ protections. Everything is bigger in Texas, including homophobia.



Saturday 'StacheA quarterback and a tight end ...


ESPN: Absolutely heartbroken for Jason Collins, who has penned a moving essay about his terminal brain cancer diagnosis. His bravery in coming out as the first "big four" team athlete meant the world to me and many others. Here's hoping his battle carries on for a long time to come. 






DM: Interesting to read that Cher got Chaz Bono's permission to "dead name" him in her memoirs. Ironically, Mom refers to him as Chas -- not Chastity -- so it must sound exactly the same on the audiobook! Happy to hear that her other son, Elijah Blue Allman, has recovered from a recent overdose. What a nightmare.





Thursday, December 11, 2025

On the Rag, Vol. 886


This week's rag 'n' mag roundup features Robbie G.K., Tom Daley, Mitch Brown, Jorge Assuncao, Fran Cerundolo and more BELOW.

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Remains of the Day (12/10)




People: Kim Cattrall marries longtime beau in London. Here's hoping the fourth time's the charm! 

Tuesday, December 09, 2025

Wish List

 

What are you hoping Santa brings this year?

Tennis Tuesday

 

This guy's so built I thought he might be AI. Get the full picture BELOW.

Monday, December 08, 2025

Remains of the Day (12/08)











Just Jared: Former hockey pro and (212) fave Sean Avery thinks "Heated Rivalry" could be the key to supporting a gay National Hockey League (NHL) player coming out in the future.











Weekend Tennis Roundup


De Minaur captures the UTS in London; Rublev wins an award from the ATP; Carlitos gets a same-sex marriage proposal in Jersey and lots more BELOW.


Sunday, December 07, 2025

'Tis the Season


Sunday brunch has been eaten. Christmas tree has been procured. Time to decorate! 



Friend of a Farmer is in the spirit



X Marks the Spot

 

I'm fairly trusting, complain plenty and have zero power -- but Gen X to the core! 

Friday, December 05, 2025

Remains of the Day (12/05)

 

Dekkoo: Liam Calvert's "A Night Like This" (2025) is definitely worth a watch. Alexander Lincoln and Jack Brett Anderson are so sexy and have such incredible chemistry that you'll remain invested till the morning after, even if the story gets a tad clumsy at times.













Song of the Day: Was stunned and thrilled when I saw a "new" release called "Take It to the Top" by the Style Council, listed as a demo from their debut LP. Turns out it's from an upcoming six-disc special edition of "Café Bleu," which will include even more previously unreleased material!  


Shame GameOur weekly viral fat “shaming” event is upon us, with a woman who claims her Delta seatmate complained about her size. I know I've been unkind about the topic in the past -- which, to be honest, is far more tongue-in-cheek than most people realize, a way of deflecting my desire to live on nothing but Nutter Butters and milk -- but I will add this: I feel for this woman and I realize most seats are too small for most of us, much less someone who is larger-statured. But it is a balancing act. Damian and I recently spent more money than we ever have on concert tickets to see Stevie Nicks, and after the show started, a young woman arrived to fill the one vacant seat directly beside us -- which forced Damian to stand entirely in front of my chair and left me 100% in the aisle, with no seat (for the ballads). We were sympathetic and didn't say anything. But would I be “shaming” anyone if we had wanted to be able to use the chairs we paid a small fortune for? Because I don't see any “nice” way of bringing it up -- and god knows she didn’t either, not even a courtesy nod.


CORRECTION: Maybe I did her a disservice by keeping my trap shut!

Thursday, December 04, 2025

On the Rag, Vol. 885


This week's double-wide rag 'n' mag roundup features Pedrin, Jack Fowler, Weslley, Jaymes Vaughan, Jonathan Bennett, Sandra Bernhard, the hot guy from "All’s Fair" and more BELOW. 

Wednesday, December 03, 2025

Rearview Mirror 2025

 

Another year has flown by -- I barely got my spring vacation photos uploaded before Thanksgiving rolled around -- but I want to take a moment to thank all of you who have continued to stop by the (212). Blogs like mine are definitely being replaced by Substacks and social media in general, so I appreciate that my 20th year(!) still saw substantial traffic. Although blogging is still my main online outlet, I am active (for my age) on other platforms. Above are my Top Nine posts from Instagram, where you can find me HERE. I'm also on Threads, Facebook and Bluesky if any of those are more your speed. xo 

Remains of the Day (12/03)






Wrestle Wednesday: Singlet squats warmup







GLAADMust-see LGBTQ TV: Your December returns and finales ... what I'm currently watching HERE.






Hot Cat of the Day: Rebel with claws


RedHot100: Fresh Fruit magazine is available HERE.


The Red Hot XXL 2026 calendar can be ordered HERE.


And Red Hot Roadtrip is ready to go for a spin HERE.

Tuesday, December 02, 2025

Music to My Ears

 

I can't imagine this would be of much interest to anyone but me. But since everyone's flooding social media with their yearend music wrap-ups, here's a look at what's been in heavy rotation this year at Casa Walsh. Of note: I saw three of them live in 2025 and have tickets to see a fourth in the months ahead! 






Donny and Marie would be proud!