Remains of the Day (10/25)

NYP: Baseball player turned coach at a ritzy NYC private school accused of sexually abusing seven boys

Greg in Hollywood: Chance encounter brings back Grammy memory involving Adele, Cameron Mathison and your favorite West Coast blogger

Beantown Cuban: Miami Beach honors Desi Arnaz 

Brian Ferrari: Have you heard the one about the Playground Swing?

Saturday 'Stache: Save a horse, ride a built cowboy

The Wrap: Thindy is a rathist

NYT: Attacks on gay men in Ivory Coast shake sense of security

WaPo: Jack Jones, hitmaking nightclub and "Love Boat" singer who lived a life that people will never live again, dies at 86

Pride: Meet Matt Mathews, the handsome "platinum star gay" who wants to hear your deepest and darkest secrets

Speedo Sunday: Tyler Hoechlin in a white T-shirt is more pornographic than his skimpiest swimwear

CNBC: Former WaPo editor Marty Baron hits the nose on the head

Washington Blade: Harris defends allowing Americans access to gender-affirming care

HuffPost: Blue states are trying to get ahead of Supreme Court on same-sex marriage

MetroWeekly: Grindr honors gay history with "Daddy Lessons"

NBC News: President Biden formally apologizes on behalf of the U.S. for Indian boarding schools

Hot Cat of the Day: When your kitty is a work of art 

Despite having been quasi obsessed with the Menendez case as an Angeleno at the time, I don't have strong feelings about it now. However, I would be much more comfortable with their possible resentencing if they had used an existing weapon -- in the "heat of the moment" -- rather than having driven 134 miles each way to purchase 12-gauge shotguns (with a fake ID after attempts to buy hand guns failed) two days before using them to blow their parents away. Their alleged abuse definitely should have been allowed in the second trial -- and yes, men can be raped. But having lived through it all, there are so many details that I think the TikTok generation -- and even Rosie O'Donnell -- are sweeping under the rug that just don't pass the smell test. 

"Our Dad, Danielle" is the story of a larger-than-life IP lawyer in Sugar Land, Texas, who at 57 came out as a trans woman and is now navigating LGBT issues while fighting for trans rights, as she and her family challenge the idea of what modern love looks like. Watch trailer HERE.

RIP: Gary Indiana, acerbic cultural critic and novelist, dies at 74

Details HERE.