Monday, May 22, 2023

Remains of the Day (05/22)


HBO Max: Wow, The new Donna Summer documentary is a lot to unpack. Although I learned so much -- and my god is she underrated as a musical artist -- it was surprisingly painful to watch at times. The Queen of Disco never seemed to find any brand of happiness -- molested by a clergyman, a clearly unwanted baby just as she was finding success, abusive relationships, dismissive record label and even her "good" marriage seemed fraught with conflict -- and as a gay man who always gave her the benefit of the doubt, I was devastated to hear her own husband confirm that that hateful rumor wasn't created out of whole cloth, and was very likely entirely true despite what she said in her tearful press conference. (It is still possible she didn't really understand the severity of HIV at the time and she did apologize, which I don't discount.) Still, at one point my partner turned to me and said, "I think I'd rather just listen some of her music than watch this" -- "I Feel Love" was blasting on the screen at the time, of course, and we both had chills -- and I was feeling the exact same way.



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6 comments:

  1. Don5:07 PM

    I thought the Donna Summer doc was a bit of a mess and didn't quite convey the genius you accurately describe. I'm gonna be a documentary editor in my next life.

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  2. Jaradon5:55 PM

    That team player dude does not seem to be wearing a jock beneath his shorts

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  3. martini4216:35 PM

    Donna Summer is my all-time favorite female vocalist and I have many I love. Part of me wants to watch it but mostly I don't because I don't think it will make me feel good. You actually gave it the best review I've read. I loved her music but I don't want to hear about her sad life. I never knew any of that -- so very sad.

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  4. Jaradon8:04 PM

    The one gift Donna Summer never lost was the voice- her music was part of the sound track of my youth

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  5. martini42111:15 PM

    Agree Unknown! I've been listening to her double-albums these last few hours. Once Upon a Time and Bad Girls. I think it's the first time in years I've listened to album tracks in their proper order! I have everything on shuffle these days. Such original and fantastic albums showcasing her fantastic vocals. And she wrote or co-wrote many of those songs. She was a splendid talent!

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  6. Randy Slovacek7:27 PM

    Yours is one of the best reviews of the Donna Summer documentary I've read. I agree across the board. The primary "good thing" I walked away with was - what a great voice/instrument. But in trying to be "artistic," I felt like we got lost along the way. And I really expected the music to be more front and center. My husband and I looked at each other at the end and were somewhat perplexed by the whole thing. And then, I listened to her music.

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